| Subject | Date Asked |
|
| Suggest some course of action for me (unsatisfied with self, money) | 8/19/2008 |
Q: since you have studied psychology and you're older than me I hope you could give me some advice or ...
A: I understand how you feel. I too come from a good family background, but the war years broke that ...
|
| q | 8/18/2008 |
Q: I came to the United States when I was 17 years old with my family from overseas. Now I am 31. Since ...
A: It is very difficult to give you any advice on this. It has little to do with mood disorders, and it ...
|
| thank u very much.u have given me relief till nw. | 8/15/2008 |
Q: i really thank u first for makin my life nicer and better till now.i read a self growth page whre we ...
A: I am glad to hear the these self-hep personal growth program helped you. Unfortunately you did not ...
|
| she is upset at what her mother says - self-esteem is low | 7/31/2008 |
Q: Today Doreen was getting ready for an interview. She put on a pair of pants and a blouse. Her mom ...
A: This is too hypothetical. What is this conversation to reflect? It seems to be fairly normal ...
|
| how can i help my-exgirlfriends self esteem after i damaged it? | 7/30/2008 |
Q: hey everybody..I was with my ex-girlfriend for 9months. first of all she things im disrespectful ...
A: It is not entirely clear what is going on, All I gather is that this is a relationship accompanied ...
|
| selfsteem and jealousy | 7/29/2008 |
Q: Male 26 My girlfriend and I have split up. We had been together for 5 months. During the first 2 ...
A: Being jealous in love relationships can be devastating, and is likely to break \up the relationship. ...
|
| I am my own worst enemy | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I'm 22, Female, currently a student. I am constantly undercutting myself, saying mean things about ...
A: I can assure you that you are not the only one who feels that way. I felt very similar to what you ...
|
| snakes | 7/16/2008 |
Q: I'm a 12 year old boy that is going to move where snakes could eat a child if given a chance. If I ...
A: Jim, As I said I have never heard of a human being being eaten by a snake. But if this is becoming ...
|
| Insecure | 7/16/2008 |
Q: I have confidence with people I can trust around me but by mouse I am like a mouse caught by 2 ...
A: There is some good news for you because being overweight and having depression, anxiety and having a ...
|
| snakes | 7/15/2008 |
Q: I'm a 12 year old boy that is going to move where snakes could eat a child if given a chance. If I ...
A: I know what you mean. I live in Australia where there are dangerous snakes. You will find that most ...
|
| Wooden Leg argument | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I've been facing low self esteem for as long as I can remember & finally after reading your book ...
A: But you can brainwash yourself by saying: "Isn't stupid to think I am unlovable, because I am ...
|
| Wooden Leg argument | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I've been facing low self esteem for as long as I can remember & finally after reading your book ...
A: The idea behind the the formula - + - = + or neg + neg = Positve is that when you have ...
|
| i need help! | 7/1/2008 |
Q: i am a 15 year old female sophomore in high school and i need help! there's these 2 guys... i just ...
A: Honesty is the best policy in romantic relationship. If you want to reject a boy's attraction to to ...
|
| not alot of self esteem left | 6/28/2008 |
Q: my name is celeste nad im in 8th grade and i do not have alot of slef esteem. I have plenty of ...
A: Being shy can be caused by a number of factors. You seem to worried about your looks and especially ...
|
| question about very successful people | 6/24/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you ever read about how very successful people deal with negative comments and/or ...
A: This is question of having a positive self-image AND being Assertive. This can be learned by doing ...
|
| life | 6/6/2008 |
Q: i get depressed a lot because of my life, i have few freinds and I am quiet which is really hard ...
A: You may be surprised to hear that depression and a low self-esteem may be easily treated with ...
|
| how do i not ruin a good relationship? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you can please help me. Ive been in many relationships over the years, a lot ...
A: It is difficult for me to say how we can improve our relationships, because i will need to know ...
|
| I need your help! | 5/20/2008 |
Q: I happened to stumble upon your website after typing in the question, "Am I insane?" It led me to ...
A: People who talk to themselves are usually lonely. Because they are aware hey are not crazy. If they ...
|
| am i insane? | 5/10/2008 |
Q: I am a 20 year old South Indian girl born into very a traditional and conservative family. However, ...
A: I get the impression that you are very intelligent, but unfortunately pretty lonely. I think it has ...
|
| help me reaching where i should be | 5/9/2008 |
Q: I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO DEVELOP MYSELF TO THE BEST POTENTIAL FROM THE 1 AND THE HALF YEARS BUT SOON I ...
A: A low self-esteem is not always due to negative thinking, because much of it may be due to an inner ...
|
| straightedge | 5/6/2008 |
Q: But after this decision I found myself more distant from my friends and other people from school. ...
A: I am not sure what you mean by straigtedge, but if you feel it has something to do with a negative ...
|
| Jealousy | 5/4/2008 |
Q: Since I was a kid I've been put down by most people I knew. When I attempted to start something new ...
A: Ho M.O. It is always difficult to stand up to criticism of the self, when you agree with the ...
|
| Separation anxiety | 4/28/2008 |
Q: I am an 11-year-old girl who, as the subject suggests, has a problem with separation anxiety. I'm ...
A: I must admit that I do not fully understand what the problem is. This is best handled in a ...
|
| Low Self-Esteem | 4/17/2008 |
Q: I have low self-esteem, which keeps me from doing a lot of things. I want to be a more sociable ...
A: You can overcome your low self-esteem by reading: Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem at: ...
|
| Depression.. i think. | 4/16/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 year old male and i basically i hate myself and everything about me... i hate my appearance ...
A: I know exactly how you feel because I remember being the same when I was young and still suffering ...
|
| my friend who is unsure of herself | 4/15/2008 |
Q: Mom: “Stacy I wish you could have gotten the blouse you brought for yourself for me in my size.” ...
A: I can not give an opinion on this, If you feel that there is an unresolved conflict perhaps it may ...
|
| What should i do? | 3/25/2008 |
Q: I was bullied at school since i was 13 till i was about 16/17 Because i was quiet... i think. I ...
A: If you lack self-confidence it could be due to several factors. Please read: Treatment of a Low ...
|
| lost & directionless | 3/21/2008 |
Q: I am a 26 years old female. For the past few weeks I have been feeling general malaise & sickness ...
A: It is always a good idea to have a thorough medical check-up with a doctor to exclude the ...
|
| about me?... | 3/12/2008 |
Q: My name is Jake. I'm 21 years old. I'm in alright shape. I stay active and workout and try to eat ...
A: I get the impression that you are suffering from anxiety attacks, that is mainly due to excess ...
|
| depressed? | 3/6/2008 |
Q: umm well im a girl and im 15. Okay so i might have a problem but i dont know yet. I am fading in and ...
A: A lot of young girls go through what you are going through. You may be surprised to hear that ...
|
| help | 3/3/2008 |
Q: Hey, i have really low self esteem and i think its mainly because of the fact i go bright red like ...
A: This is very difficult for you. It is not clear whether the blushing is due to a low self-esteem or ...
|
| How much influence does self esteem have on a person's life? | 2/22/2008 |
Q: Plesman, this is sai. I'm a psychology student trying to analyze the influence of self esteem on a ...
A: I have not been able to open the link you gave. Self-image is an important component in one's life, ...
|
| i hate myself | 2/17/2008 |
Q: i hate being around people, i hate being seen, i don't feel comfortable around nobody not even my ...
A: I get the impression that you are female and overweight, and that you have a serious low ...
|
| My Coach | 2/16/2008 |
Q: I am a sophmore in high school and I am having a real problem with my coach. My freshman year ...
A: The best is to tell her frankly how you feel and try to resolve the problem. It is quite possible ...
|
| getting concious (need help) | 1/31/2008 |
Q: How are you.I have a very bad problem of getting concious withing friends and in groups.Though it is ...
A: The book is freely available on the internet as shown in my signature. The psychological aspects of ...
|
| Self Concious | 1/23/2008 |
Q: I'm Phoebs, I'm Really Self Conscious About My Figure, My Facial Appearance, My Weight. I Think I'm ...
A: Of course I can not say whether you are fat, but if you are it can be reversed. Being overweight is ...
|
| Concerning depression and hypoglycemia | 1/17/2008 |
Q: Plesman; I've previously consulted you before. I've read with shock and appreciation, your articles ...
A: I am not familiar wit h foods you described. But i there is wheat involved one has to be careful ...
|
| depression/stress/& worry | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I've read some of you're articles about nutrition & depression, I've been suffering with depression ...
A: I can not help you much apart from referring you to my articles or my book. Our web site is a ...
|
| Concerning depression and hypoglycemia | 1/16/2008 |
Q: Plesman; I've previously consulted you before. I've read with shock and appreciation, your articles ...
A: I would say you are on the right track. But you have to give yourself time. In most cases people ...
|
| Intimidation? Maybe...? | 1/15/2008 |
Q: Im female (obviously...) and Im 14 yrs old, going on fifteen in less than a month. Alright, so I'm a ...
A: You are so right that if you want to be successful in life we need to have an unconditional regard ...
|
| I'm not sick but I'm Not well | 1/14/2008 |
Q: My name is Rosi i am 18 and my question is... what's wrong with me? I mean I hate my self my ...
A: This is a clear sign of having a low self-esteem. This can be related to a metabolic disorder, ...
|
| i feel alone! | 1/8/2008 |
Q: i recently became engaged and moved to california from michigan with my fiance. he is in school and ...
A: Dar alicia, I don't know why you cannot make friends. Some people have problems because they have a ...
|
| HELP | 1/6/2008 |
Q: female and 32 yers old my whole extenec is daster from start to finish.i am nearly 30 years i have ...
A: The way you describe your life it seems to be pretty hopeless. But things can change. You yourself ...
|
| depression. | 1/4/2008 |
Q: Lately; I've been feeling very depressed and I don't know what to do. I've been having suicidal ...
A: You know Becca, people with a low self-esteem always seem to be attracted to one another and thereby ...
|
| yah | 12/29/2007 |
Q: i used 2 b a freaking baller now im a freaking watcher i watch as my friends flirt wit hot girls im ...
A: Perhaps the following article might help you to understand why: Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem at: ...
|
| Self Esteem and Boundaries | 12/23/2007 |
Q: I think I have low self esteem issues in relationships with the opposite sex. I am currently ...
A: It is difficult to say what's going on. Take it one day at a time. It is up to him to arrange to see ...
|
| im stressed, depressed or whats wrong? | 12/22/2007 |
Q: i have a question I'M a 17 yr. old girl, and I'm working I'm not in school...the thing is that i ...
A: I am sorry if that was confusing. It means cutting out sugar from your diet. ...
|
| im stressed, depressed or whats wrong? | 12/21/2007 |
Q: i have a question I'M a 17 yr. old girl, and I'm working I'm not in school...the thing is that i ...
A: You write that you are depressed and also that you have put on weight. The two may be related in ...
|
| Panic attacks/pts/general fear of life | 12/21/2007 |
Q: The question is is there any way that I can get back to the fun-loving, outgoing, adventurous and ...
A: This is an incredible story. It is amazing how officials can treat people, I am really sorry you had ...
|
| Narcisissm | 12/12/2007 |
Q: When I tell my boyfriend that I love him- his response is thank you-what is that about? He tells me ...
A: It means he may have a problem with his self-image. People with a lows self-image tend to put other ...
|
| I have no Ambition | 12/12/2007 |
Q: well recently i have been laying around and been wondering some weird things like who am i and whats ...
A: This could well be a mild depression, that also makes you feel without any a ambition. Perhaps you ...
|
| Hi | 12/9/2007 |
Q: I'm recently coming to terms with some rather debilitating self-esteem problems. I just turned 22. ...
A: Perhaps some self-help therapy might help. Please read: Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem at: ...
|
| lLow self esteem or depression? | 11/30/2007 |
Q: Low self esteem or depression? i have low self esteem i hate being seen i stay in the house because ...
A: It seems to me that you are suffering from depression. This is NOT a "mental" illness, but a ...
|
| Trouble Talking to People, Maybe Self-Esteem Issue | 11/30/2007 |
Q: my name's eddie and I am 15 years old and am a sophomore in high school. I've been going through a ...
A: Im know how you feel and I also know that the self-image lies at the core of our personality. In ...
|
| i need help..... | 11/29/2007 |
Q: I am a 14 year old guy and I have a hard time making friends. I am gifted intellectually and ...
A: I am very jealous of you that you have these computer skills. I am still struggling with computers. ...
|
| Esteem Question | 11/27/2007 |
Q: I'm 20 and in junior year of college. Lately I've been feeling really negative about myself. I've ...
A: I agree having a low self-esteem can get you into a lot of trouble. It is very important to get rid ...
|
| why do i suck? | 11/27/2007 |
Q: ok i don't know what my problem is, i just don't like my self!!!!! i cant win, the more i hate my ...
A: Your self-hate may not be in the mind, but rather in the body that fails to produce feel good ...
|
| social problems | 11/25/2007 |
Q: I'm a junior in high school, and for my first two years i had a good friend who, i thought, made ...
A: This seems to boil down to having a low self-esteem, that makes it difficult for you to get close to ...
|
| poor me | 11/24/2007 |
Q: I want to know if this are symptoms of low self esteem: *I invite my friends for expensive lunch ...
A: If you feel a low self-esteem is the problem this can be overcome by reading and studying: ...
|
| Regarding hypoglycemia | 11/11/2007 |
Q: I did the hypoglycemia test that you gave me, and I scored 88! I realise that it is very high. ...
A: Most conventional doctors do not recognize pre-diabetic hypoglycemia and would not know how to test ...
|
| Self conscious and confidence | 11/9/2007 |
Q: I'm also a student at the University of Sydney. I am in first year of uni. I've always seemed to ...
A: These problems cannot be overcome by forcing yourself to think, it really does not exist or I can ...
|
| violence relationship with my spouse | 10/25/2007 |
Q: am married for three years things started to change after our first kid was born. the way my spouse ...
A: I am really sorry to hear that. Unfortunately you did not give more information about what way your ...
|
| ayuda | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I was hired by a pharmaceutical plant just for this year, 2007, but I expected to get a long term ...
A: It is very difficult to give you advice. This is an awkward situation to be in. Perhaps you may ...
|
| Hygene | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I have a 14 year old step daughter that I can not get to take a shower - she has to be pushed even ...
A: This must be very difficult for you. You mentioned that she was bed wetting and this is usually a ...
|
| problems | 9/22/2007 |
Q: First of all, i have a really low self esteem. I try to do things that people like instead of doing ...
A: Please read: Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem at: ...
|
| A decade depression bout | 9/12/2007 |
Q: I have been suffering from presumed clinical depression for approximately 10 years, which my self ...
A: Yes there is hope. Depression/alcoholism can be treated. See: Drug Addition is a Nutritional ...
|
| swallowing | 8/30/2007 |
Q: When I was in grade 12, we always went to church on sunday. It was half an hour trip and I would ...
A: You are not far off the mark. I suspect this is anxiety. Most people think that anxiety can be ...
|
| Relationships/insecurity | 8/28/2007 |
Q: I've recently begun a relationship (almost 2 months in) and although for the first few weeks I found ...
A: It seems to me that your insecurity is related to a low self-esteem. Now this can be caused by a ...
|
| hypoglycaemia | 8/17/2007 |
Q: I thought your site was extremely insightful. I suffer from feelings of low self-esteems, ...
A: Most doctors are not familar withy the test for hypoglycemia. I suggest you print out the post at: ...
|
| Self | 8/1/2007 |
Q: I was just wondering, is it true that you might see yourself differently then others? Because to ...
A: Study: Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem at: ...
|
| Self | 8/1/2007 |
Q: I was just wondering, is it true that you might see yourself differently then others? Because to ...
A: Where do you get the idea from that " girls don't approve of me, that I'm not attractive as I think ...
|
| Self | 8/1/2007 |
Q: I was just wondering, is it true that you might see yourself differently then others? Because to ...
A: Female attraction to men goes well beyond good looks. There are many other personality factors ...
|
| Anxiety | 7/29/2007 |
Q: "I am a 16 year old girl who has extreme issues with anxiety. My main worry right now is about ...
A: Yes it is important to have self-confidence in the work situation as well as in other departments ...
|
| Self-esteem | 7/27/2007 |
Q: I am caught between two realities. I was raised very strict, very formal, everything I did and said ...
A: I fully understand how you feel. It is not going to help you to dwell on the past, because that ...
|
| The mind | 7/22/2007 |
Q: i am well educated in the mental world, i use to be a expert on this site for 4yrs.. Here;s my ...
A: This all seems to boil down to lack of self-esteem. You may be wondering why would a beautiful girl ...
|
| Alone? | 7/6/2007 |
Q: I'm 16 I've never had a girlfriend and I feel like I don't have many friends. I want to make more ...
A: You would not be the only one to feel inadequate at that age. I am sure you will grow out of it. But ...
|
| Self esteem problems in Dating | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I have had low self-esteem pretty much my whole life. It stems from being an undersized, ...
A: Having a low self-esteem may have many unexpected angles. For instance many people do not realize ...
|
| abandonment issues (I think) | 6/20/2007 |
Q: I'm not sure if you can help or if I need to see someone in person regularly. I've had abandonment ...
A: It seems to me from a distance that you may be suffering from depression. Depression is often ...
|
| Student with problems | 5/19/2007 |
Q: I have an issue that I am hoping you can help me with. Thank you for being on all-experts and ...
A: I really appreciate how you are trying to help your student. As a nutritional psychologist I ...
|
| girl | 5/15/2007 |
Q: In my work place there is a sigle black lady, 27, with a 7 years boy son. She is a worker and I am a ...
A: I tend to agree with the other psychologists that it is not a good idea to pursue that Lady. Instead ...
|
| help | 5/11/2007 |
Q: I am a man living in caracas and I am an alcoholic`s son I was a teen I never had friends. The ...
A: There is little I can say, except that you should tell your son about your own experiences in life. ...
|
| Reverse Conditioning... | 4/28/2007 |
Q: Dr. Plesman, I just wanted to send you a quick note of thanks concerning your articles on anxiety, ...
A: No, there are no thought processes that can reverse a medical condition such as insulin resistance. ...
|
| Reverse Conditioning... | 4/28/2007 |
Q: Dr. Plesman, I just wanted to send you a quick note of thanks concerning your articles on anxiety, ...
A: Enumeration and obsessive thoughts are symptoms of the same excess adrenaline production that is ...
|
| me | 4/24/2007 |
Q: Ever since I was little I've always felt like an outcast, even with my friends and family. I've ...
A: You have to forgive all these people who cannot understand that you have anxiety attacks. This is a ...
|
| self-esteem | 4/3/2007 |
Q: I need help with my self-esteem. I always feel like I have it but people tell me that I really do ...
A: Esther, A low self-esteem can be treated by both a biological and psychological angle. Please ...
|
| Envious and defeated | 4/1/2007 |
Q: we both worked in bakery and I envy her so much because she is inteligent and doesn't care what ...
A: This may be a problem of a low self-esteem. Please read: Treating a Low Self-Esteem at: ...
|
| self esteem | 3/26/2007 |
Q: This is a little weird, but I have a disorder called trichotillomania, or at least I self-diagnosed ...
A: The fact that you had trichotillomania means to me that there is a biological factor involved. Most ...
|
| bliminal motivational tapes | 3/15/2007 |
Q: How do I know that these tapes are safe? what agency or who Checks them for content. Right Now I am ...
A: I am not a an expert of subliminal suggestion in self-esteem, but I suggest you have a google search ...
|
| helping my spouse with self-esteem | 3/8/2007 |
Q: I have not given you my real name, but I hope that is all right. I have been married for one and a ...
A: I know how difficult it is to help your wife, but she definitely can be helped. Most cases of a low ...
|
| inhibitions | 3/5/2007 |
Q: Hey! I don't know if you can help me or not, but I thought you might if you had a degree in ...
A: If you are motivated to study, you should be able to overcome a low self-esteem in a fairly short ...
|
| self-esteem | 2/19/2007 |
Q: I need your help and suggestions with these areas: 1. My biggest problem is that when I decide to ...
A: It seems to me that you are not in control over your emotions, which naturally will affect your ...
|
| Sports confidence | 2/9/2007 |
Q: I am 48,no health or mental issues,but I couple of hangups I cant get over. I play sports ...
A: As a nutritional psychologist I can only think of the possibility that you are over-anxioius. This ...
|
| Do I suffer from depression? | 2/1/2007 |
Q: Feel a bit stupid asking this, but is it always obvious if you are suffering from depression. I know ...
A: It is necessary to get a proper diagnosis of depression by a therapist. Here is a definition: ...
|
| Self-Conciousness | 1/12/2007 |
Q: I suffer for extreme self consciousness publicly when other people are around and privately in my ...
A: The reason why you may not be able to understand why you feel so down is that you may have ...
|
| hello | 1/8/2007 |
Q: i have a question. how can u tell if a guy is shy or stuck up and mean?? there is this guy i work ...
A: This is very difficult to say, because I have not met the guy. The best is to study our free course ...
|
| Self-esteem / Self-confidence | 1/6/2007 |
Q: I'm 19 years old I've always had low self esteem , I can't seem to ever have any faith in myself , I ...
A: Having a low self-esteem may have a biological aspect that needs to be eliminated BEFORE we look at ...
|
| Me? | 9/16/2006 |
Q: I hav a problem with me,sometimes i look in the mirror and think "not so bad" but then sometimes i ...
A: When we have a low opinion of ourselves there can be two causes. May be you may be feeling depressed ...
|
| help | 9/13/2006 |
Q: I am a white man living in venezuela married with two children. In the factory I work in there is a ...
A: It is very difficult to give advice about your extra-marital affair, but no doubt the fact you ...
|
| <3 | 9/7/2006 |
Q: why cant i stop crying im 15 years old and the littlest thing will make me cry. i cry at anything. i ...
A: It could be that you have hypoglycemia, which is a sugar handling problem. It can cause ...
|
| I need freinds i Need love | 8/31/2006 |
Q: Okay, here is goes. Its been about 5 to 6 months since I moved in w/ my long lost father since five ...
A: Most people believe when you have anxiety attacks and depression that it is due to PSYCHOLOGICAL ...
|
| Panic attack changed life | 8/30/2006 |
Q: I am now 25 and I feel that I am avoiding allot due to anxiety. I was never an anxious person until ...
A: I have a feeling that your anxiety attacks may have been aggravated by the use of drugs. Most people ...
|
| hello | 8/18/2006 |
Q: i feel like a loser though because im not very close with my classmates, not even my friends all ...
A: If you are happy the way you are, there is nothing to worry about. Some people are natural loners ...
|
| me | 8/12/2006 |
Q: my name is Lisa I’m 15 and really need your help. Me and my bf have been together for 3 months. The ...
A: Your feelings seem to be due to a very low self-esteem. Sometimes people who feel they are not ...
|
| Self Esteem , Self Image FEARS | 8/10/2006 |
Q: I just turned 20.. And I have been dealing with some problems since I first began dating. My first ...
A: This stems from a negative self-image and it is not sure where that came from. Nevertheless this ...
|
| what is wrong with me | 7/25/2006 |
Q: i dont really know where to start. i am a dancer, well i say dancer but i only started dancing two ...
A: Your problem may be due not so much to your character or personality, but rather to your health. ...
|
| depression | 7/17/2006 |
Q: Not a question, more of a statement. I read something earlier about how everything we do or live ...
A: You seem to be very depressed and taking your own life is not a solution, because you may be ...
|
| low self esteem | 7/10/2006 |
Q: Have self doubt and don't believe in my ability to achive I need an answer on how to solve this
A: You have not given sufficient information, but generally speaking a low self-esteem can have a ...
|
| what to do when my boyfriend acts like he doesn't love me any more when he really does | 7/9/2006 |
Q: Okay so my boyfriend that i've got now kinda ignores me when were around friends or people that we ...
A: The best is to confront him and force him to make a choice between you and the other girl. If he ...
|
| Scared | 7/4/2006 |
Q: i am sorry, i have read most of these articles and even before i reached the end it seems to give ...
A: I still feel that you should fully discuss this with your counsellor. Counsellors are there to help ...
|
| Scared | 7/3/2006 |
Q: I am 14, female. My parents are divorced. I live with my dad and my mam has moved away. i used to be ...
A: I don't know whether you fear is justified or not. This i really a matter that you should discuss ...
|
| I hate myself | 6/11/2006 |
Q: Wow, the subject of this question sounds very emo. Sorry. Anyway, My name is Michelle, im 16 (17 in ...
A: No I don't think you are just "seeking attention" and if you do, you really need to. You are merely ...
|
| Overweight & low self esteem | 6/10/2006 |
Q: I look in the mirror and am disgusted by how much weight I have gained, but then rebel and balk at ...
A: You might be surprised to hear that being overweight an having a low self-esteem are not only ...
|
| Hypoglycemia | 5/28/2006 |
Q: I have seen reference to your book on the internet, but can't find out where to buy it. Is it out ...
A: I am reluctant to post my book to you because of expenses. My book is on the internet at: ...
|
| Stopping myself getting hurt | 5/25/2006 |
Q: i am a woman of 37 years, I had a rocky upbringing, both parents frighting an my father in ...
A: I am sorry to hear that you had so lousy an upbringing. Being a nutritional psychologist I look upon ...
|
| Narcissism | 3/30/2006 |
Q: My inquiry is regarding narcissism. Where exactly does narcissism stem from? I realize that ...
A: I am not sure whether this question is a philosophical or a psychological question. Psychologists ...
|
| Low Self Asteem | 3/29/2006 |
Q: Any input would be greatly apreacated Thanks in advanced Eric
A: These awful feelings are due to a low self-esteem and a negative self-image. This can be overcome ...
|
| confidence | 3/13/2006 |
Q: I don't always have confidence in myself. There are so many pretty girls out there and I don't ...
A: Somehow you have learned to put yourself down. We are dealing with a negative self-image that is ...
|
| ypical low self esttem | 3/8/2006 |
Q: I hve the typical low self estee problem. I am a colleg student. I was better in high school, but ...
A: Your situation is usually due to two things: * A possible metabolic disorder that interferes with ...
|
| Medications | 3/3/2006 |
Q: Just curious as to which Depression meds are your 1st choice? I have a Dr. and am on meds, ...
A: As a nutritional psychologist I don't use medications for depression. Depression can be treated ...
|
| chance? | 3/2/2006 |
Q: i'm 15 almost 16 i have never gotten a girlfried may be because i am really quiet shy guy and kept ...
A: This all comes down to your self-image. This can be either positive or negative, and if you feel it ...
|
| hot women | 2/23/2006 |
Q: Hey Jurriaan HOW DO U FEEL I SHOULD APPROACH HOT WOMEN, THEY HAVE INTIMIDATED ME ALL MY LIFE, I ...
A: The best thing is for you to study our self-help psychotherapy course at our web site. It is free of ...
|
| hello.
i'm israeli but i... | 2/19/2006 |
Q: i'm israeli but i live in england. I'm 15, and i suffer from very strong depressions, almost all the ...
A: It seems to me that moving to England has aggravated your depression, because of stress hromones. ...
|
| Hey | 1/19/2006 |
Q: i have a major problem with being competitive. i always want to be the best worker, the best ...
A: This could have something to do with a low self-esteem and perhaps perfectionism. The latter says ...
|
| Dealing with life's B.S. | 1/17/2006 |
Q: I am a 23 year old college student. I know a lot of people who are fairly optimistic, and things ...
A: It is very difficult to know what is really going on. But I have a feeling that we are dealing with ...
|
| Self-Esteem | 1/9/2006 |
Q: 1.) What are some of the characteristic of low self-esteem. 2.) What the first step in building ...
A: These are simple questions with complex answers It is not always realized that a low self-esteem ...
|
| Low self esteem | 12/23/2005 |
Q: my age 18. i am a college student. My english is not good, so please pardon any mistakes. i have ...
A: I don't know what language you speak, but for your information we have translators at our web site ...
|
| help | 12/8/2005 |
Q: I am a 15-yaer-old with ZERO confidence. I know that beauty comes from the inside, and firmly ...
A: You certainly can. It will require a lot of study, but you'll find it is is very pleasurable. We ...
|
| hey | 11/29/2005 |
Q: hey, i have a really big problem with jealousy. i get jealous over EVERYTHING, if someone is ...
A: This is due to a low self-esteem. This can be overcome by studying our self-help psychotherapy ...
|
| shyness | 10/27/2005 |
Q: I am shy and people either think i'm boring or mean which i'm not i've told that a lot but i would ...
A: Please read and study our self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY course at: ...
|
| What others think of me. | 10/21/2005 |
Q: I know this is a common issue and i've tried to find on google but to not much avail. I made a ...
A: I am not entirely sure what the question is. But it seems to me that it is about a choice of whether ...
|
| Mistakes | 10/5/2005 |
Q: I'm 16 years old, and I become a mental mess whenever I make a mistake in front of other people. ...
A: I understand exactly how you feel. Yes you could overcome this by doing our self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY ...
|
| please help me... | 7/30/2005 |
Q: I am 18 yrs old and expecting a child by the end of August the father has left me, he is in ...
A: I can understand the awful situation you are in and how you feel you may have lost all ...
|
| Little Different Question... | 7/27/2005 |
Q: Okay, i understand if this isn't your feild but. I was very impressed with your profile so here goes ...
A: I can understand your situation. A person with a negative self-image, will expect other people to ...
|
| Pluses &Minues of high and low self esteem | 7/12/2005 |
Q: I'M wondering if someone who thinks they have a very high self esteem of themselves can maybe not be ...
A: I have discussed this in our self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY course at our web site. Search for "I am ...
|
| What I Want with life. | 7/11/2005 |
Q: I'm a teenager and i'm not exactly sure what i want. I want to be happy but sometimes feel like i ...
A: I could be possible that you may be suffering from depression. This happens when your body cannot ...
|
| how do i have more self esteem... | 6/21/2005 |
Q: how do i have more self esteem when talk to people espicially guys?
A: The best thing to do is to study our self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY at our web site. This course teaches ...
|
| Self-Esteem | 6/6/2005 |
Q: I lost my job some time ago and have been finding it extremely difficult to find another. I'm now ...
A: This must be awful to having lost your job. Yes that can be a real knock to one's self-esteem, but ...
|
| date | 6/6/2005 |
Q: well i thought id ask im at uni and have never had a gf and it always gets to me that i can never ...
A: There are two aspects you need to investigate; (1) a possible metabolic disorder and (2) a low ...
|
| Teen self esteem | 4/29/2005 |
Q: I am doing a project for my English class concerning peer pressure faced by teens. My specific topic ...
A: Peer group pressure can influence behaviour of many young people basically because the 'approval of ...
|
| teen daughter acting out and depressed | 4/5/2005 |
Q: I'm writing in reference to my 14 y/o daughter. She's been breaking household rules, sneaking out at ...
A: This must be very difficult for you. It's important that parents agree on educational policy as to ...
|
| help with self esteem problem | 4/5/2005 |
Q: my name is Shaina. I am not asking this question of myself but of someone very dear and close to me ...
A: You must be in a very difficult situation to love a man, who puts himself down and is so dependent ...
|
| Eating disorder help | 4/2/2005 |
Q: I'm a male, 27yrs old and have been struggling with bulimia for the past 7 years. My life is a total ...
A: It is not often we hear of a male have bulimia and binging. This is usually a female affliction. I ...
|
| Wanting to start a Clinic | 3/30/2005 |
Q: I am a fellow expert that wants to follow a new life mission, I just need a little kick start, LOL! ...
A: This seems to be a good idea building self esteem with the help of pets. I have a self-help ...
|
| Self esteem | 3/24/2005 |
Q: first of all for replying one of my questions in depression.about.com. I'm getting treated for ...
A: I can see that this is a rather difficult situation for you, especially in a Muslim culture, that I ...
|
| Shyness | 3/1/2005 |
Q: I'll try to keep this short. I'm basically looking for help to overcome shyness and a sort of ...
A: You said that you have been reading books about overcoming shyness, but that they have not helped. ...
|
| Self-Esteem | 2/10/2005 |
Q: I am 18 years old in my senior year of high-school. Often time when I'm talking to someone or a ...
A: I agree having a low self-esteem can be very destructive and can lead to depression. There is an ...
|
| self esteem....... | 2/3/2005 |
Q: Well, i am a teenager and i have the typical self esteem problem. I accept that i have a low self ...
A: I know a negative self-image can be very self destructive. We have a self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY ...
|
| Asian | 2/3/2005 |
Q: Wassup!! I am Vic and I'm an asian... well i'd like to ask why some blondes or american or european ...
A: I cannot imagine this is still going on. Racisms exists at both sides of the fence, and racists are ...
|
| MEDICATIONS | 1/18/2005 |
Q: MY HUSBAND WANTS TO KNOW IF THERE ARE ANY MEDICATIONS (EITHER OTC OR PRESCRIPTION) THAT COULD HELP ...
A: I am more into the nutritional aspect of behaviour and drugs can only cover up the underlying causes ...
|
| Girlfriends Self Esteem Problems | 1/13/2005 |
Q: Getting back together with a girl I have totally fallen for. Screwed things up badly earlier, but ...
A: I an see the problem. This must be hard to handle. She could have anxiety problems in which case ...
|
| Confidence | 1/2/2005 |
Q: I tend to be a pretty out going person. I wasn't always, I actually used to be very, very shy (to ...
A: I understand what you are going through and, yes, there is a solution. I will need some reading and ...
|
| Depression | 11/25/2004 |
Q: I'm 13 years old and I need some advice really badly. For the past year or more I've been really ...
A: My goodness you must be going through a rough time. I am reluctant to give you advice without the ...
|
| overly shy and anxious child | 11/23/2004 |
Q: my daughter is 3 1/2 years old and has been attending day school for about 6 months now on a part ...
A: This would be very worrying for you. I think the first step is to see the manager or teachers at the ...
|
| shy in college | 11/17/2004 |
Q: I'm an 18 yr old male freshman in college. When I was younger I used to be the most outgoing and ...
A: You seem to be going round in circles, and it could well be because one aspect of your depression ...
|
| Assertiveness | 11/11/2004 |
Q: I am a 19-year old, newly married, unemployed, full-time college student. I have noticed that I am ...
A: This is related to a low self-esteem and lack of assertiveness. We have a self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY ...
|
| self-esteem | 10/5/2004 |
Q: I was wondering if you could tell me how you think the recent popularity of reality make-over shows ...
A: I am afraid I am not familiar with 'make-over shows'. But I would imagine that it has something to ...
|
| self-esteem issues | 10/5/2004 |
Q: I have HUGE self esteem issues. I also had many of the issues you mentioned such as depression and ...
A: I can understand how you feel. I look at these kinds of problems from two angles 1) physiological ...
|
| I am currently taking 30 mg of Remeron per day, but still experience some depression. | 9/4/2004 |
Q: I am a 53 yr. female, on synthroid for hypothyroid disease x 2 yrs., remeron for 9 months, but still ...
A: I am glad you realize that that temper tantrums and bad behaviour can be due to diabetes and in ...
|
| rejection | 8/16/2004 |
Q: I had read in a new book called FEAR AND OTHER UNINVITED GUEST about a particular piece of advice a ...
A: I read your post with a smile, because this would have been a good script for a comedy. Fear of ...
|
| Psychology- mourning | 8/10/2004 |
Q: I'm trying to write a movie to send for college. The premise (so far) is this: a girl (Zoe) is ...
A: I think the best is to google search for "grieving". People react differently to grieving. It is ...
|
| SELF ESTEEM PROBLEMS | 6/19/2004 |
Q: i put my self down alot im fat and ugly and well im in the 9th grade and im really confussed with ...
A: It is very difficult to overcome a low self-esteem when you combine that with how you look. ...
|
| Voice / Personality Modulation | 6/11/2004 |
Q: It amazes me that I am 2 people in one: One a Winner, the other a Looser. Deplorably, its the Loser ...
A: My first reaction to your question is that you should see a clinical psychologist for an individual ...
|
| media and teenagers | 5/16/2004 |
Q: What impact do you think television or magazines have on teenagers when it comes to how they should ...
A: Because teenagers depend on others as to how they should look and act, the media feeds into their ...
|
| teenagers | 5/16/2004 |
Q: Do you think that the media plays a significant roll in what teenage girls think their image should ...
A: The difference between being a teenager and an adult is that most teenagers DEPEND on other people ...
|
| Self- mutilation | 5/11/2004 |
Q: My name is April, I'm a junior at Berne-Knox-Westerlo High School and I have to complete a research ...
A: I find it always difficult to answer these kinds of questions, because they ask for generalities. I ...
|
| is ther help on verbal skills | 5/1/2004 |
Q: math and life skills, but i have problems in relationships. Men are happy to be with me WHEN THEY ...
A: If you think that your major problem is shyness, and low self-esteem, then I suggest you study our ...
|
| my uncle's new friend | 3/21/2004 |
Q: My uncle's wife passed away in November of 2003. and now being that my uncle is lonley(he likes to ...
A: This possessiveness of children of their parents often happens. These children may feel very ...
|
| Self-esteem | 3/11/2004 |
Q: I need some help. I have always had problems with eating. I have been overweight and then developed ...
A: Yes I can see that you must feel lousy about yourself. I see your problem as being both physical; ...
|
| need your help | 3/10/2004 |
Q: It was so nice to read your advice. I need more advice, and I am really helpless, and i was ...
A: It is very difficult to give advice about this particular matter. The position is that you have to ...
|
| heart domination | 2/29/2004 |
Q: how can i dominate and rule my heart? when i talk for alot of people or when i talk to a girl my ...
A: It seems to me that when you talk to a girl your own self-image gets in the way of expressing your ...
|
| Self-esteem | 2/25/2004 |
Q: My name is Renee. I was overweight in all of high school and got an eating disorder called anorexia ...
A: First of all I would advise you to go on a hypoglycemic diet, as a high protein diet will help you ...
|
| boyfriend | 2/17/2004 |
Q: my boyfriend, more often than not, feels that our relationship is unfair. he says it is unequal. for ...
A: It is very difficult to give you a straight forward answer, as it needs really personal interviews ...
|
| the man with 2 faces | 1/30/2004 |
Q: Im 30. A Computer Network Engineer. I was diagnosed with cancer when I was about 6 or 7 cant ...
A: I realize this must be an awful situation to be in. Surely this must have affected your self-image ...
|
