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| Confused . . . terribly | 3/17/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: I am 17, about to be 18 and I have never had a boyfriend. Last year I went to prom with a friend ...
A: I'm sorry to hear about all the challenges you are facing in your social network! As I read your ...
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| do boys like tomboys or girly girls more? | 3/16/2009 | James |
Q: hey... i'm a 13 year old girl and i have a question about whether boys like tomboys or girly girls ...
A: I think most guys probably do at your age prefer more girlish girls to girls that behave more like ...
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| do boys like tomboys or girly girls more? | 3/16/2009 | Ravindra |
Q: hey... i'm a 13 year old girl and i have a question about whether boys like tomboys or girly girls ...
A: hold on my dear, you are just 13 and there is plenty of life left. Having dates with boys is not ...
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| do boys like tomboys or girly girls more? | 3/16/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: hey... i'm a 13 year old girl and i have a question about whether boys like tomboys or girly girls ...
A: Brianna, Be yourself! You'll be happiest when you do the things you love (like sports), wear the ...
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| do boys like tomboys or girly girls more? | 3/16/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
Q: hey... i'm a 13 year old girl and i have a question about whether boys like tomboys or girly girls ...
A: Some boys like tomboys and some boys like girly girls, but most boys I would guess, like a girl ...
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| sudden change in behavoir | 3/14/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: In September of 2008 I signed my 3 year old daughter up for Gymnastics and Dance. She went to both ...
A: It is difficult to say. I think you should consult a child psychologist in the first placer. ...
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| Increasing my social network | 3/10/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: In theory, I would expect myself to have a number of friends. I’ve been shy most of my life and ...
A: Chris, You sound like an amazing person! Your question reads like a resume for what I feel would ...
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| Need help increasing Social Network | 3/10/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
Q: In theory, I would expect myself to have a number of friends. I’ve been shy most of my life and ...
A: Right off the bat, I can tell you that you're trying "too hard". Not everyone likes being approached ...
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| Need help increasing my social network | 3/10/2009 | Ravindra |
Q: In theory, I would expect myself to have a number of friends. I’ve been shy most of my life and ...
A: how old are you? because at an young age, all persons are not endowed with the skill reqd to make ...
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| living without feeling desired | 3/9/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: i am in a difficult situation. I recently split up with my boyfriend of two years whom I'm in love ...
A: Rachel, You are very brave! Congratulate yourself for the very brave and challenging work it takes ...
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| living without feeling desired? | 3/9/2009 | James |
Q: i am in a difficult situation. I recently split up with my boyfriend of two years whom I'm in love ...
A: So than wanting to be desired you're afraid will make you jump into the next available relationship ...
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| Self-control | 3/8/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: My problem is that i lack control over myself emotionally.Some days ago a murder happened in our ...
A: Having no control over your emotions may means that an underlying metabolic disorder is producing ...
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| afraid | 3/8/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
Q: I need to make a decision right now. I'm twelve years old, going thirteen. A few weeks ago I watched ...
A: If you are 'inspired' to do anything - ABSOLUTELY go for it! If you don't you will regret it for the ...
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| 14 year old daughter | 3/7/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: My daughter likes a boy. They are great friends but he is not interested in her as a girlfriend. He ...
A: Judy, I'm so sorry for the delay in responding to your question!! Please accept my apology... I ...
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| stress all day..... | 3/6/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: I'm 16 and I feel lik I got 2 much in my life 2 handle. I'm always terrible at talkin, small talk, ...
A: Firstly, I must apology for the delay in answering your question. I have been having network ...
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| problem | 3/6/2009 | Ravindra |
Q: i feel very bad about the way i look(even if it isn't true or not). Can i send a picture to you to ...
A: GOD made you, right? there is some purpose unknown to you. i have a large number of friends who ...
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| Child recently suddenly relocated because parents are arguing | 3/6/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: I have a bestfriend and she recently removed her son from his father's home in another city. She ...
A: You are a good friend and your friend will continue to need you to be supportive in her time of ...
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| Appearance and Posture | 3/5/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: Could you tell me the best ways a young man can generally improve his appearance and posture? Thanks
A: As you stated, this is a very generalized question, but I'll do my best to answer it. Posture and ...
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| Improving self esteem | 3/5/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
Q: Could you tell me the best ways I can improve my own, and other peoples self esteem? Thanks
A: This is a very general question with no specific point to address. Is there an area in your life ...
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| Improving self esteem | 3/5/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: Could you please tell me the most effective ways of improving one's own self esteem, and also the ...
A: Sometimes a low self-esteem is caused by an inner biological flaw, that needs to be eliminated ...
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| To love myself? | 3/5/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
Q: My name is Tasha and I am a 17 year old female and I am overweight.. I wear a 16-20 depending on the ...
A: Firstly, I must congratulate you for seeking advice. It's very difficult to admit when something is ...
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| I'm depressed. | 3/3/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: I'm a 12 year old girl. My Dad got laid off in Jan. 08 and since then I've been depressed. He just ...
A: The signs are that you suffer from depression. It might be of interest to you read about the ...
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| self sabotage? | 2/22/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: I am a 37 yr old female. I've got a 5 yr old and a 6 month old. I've had about 20 extra lbs on ...
A: This may be related to diet. Please test yourself with the The Nutrition-Behavior Inventory ...
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| Jealous girlfriend | 2/21/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: I am having a really big problem with my girlfriend when it comes to jealousy. She has admitted to ...
A: This is a difficult situation. Obviously your girl friend has a low self-esteem and if she is not ...
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| am i beautiful? | 2/19/2009 | James |
Q: my boyfriend never tells me im beautiful, he never wants to spend quality time together and we live ...
A: I think communicate to him that you feel unwanted when he pays so little attention to you. Have this ...
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| loss of self esteem over years and how to regain? | 2/18/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
Q: I am a 21 year old guy and a lot has happened that resulted in the complete annihilation of self ...
A: This is a very long, involved question with many issues here that include much more than your ...
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| eye contact | 2/17/2009 | James |
Q: I am having terrible problems feeling comfortable with my partner. I know it is just a tiny issue, ...
A: That does sound like a big deal. I'll assume he is middle aged due to having an eye operating. I'm ...
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| hypoglycemia | 2/16/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: I have hypothyroid disease (Hashimoto's); whenever my family doctor orders a lipid test (I have to ...
A: Perhaps your doctor may have a problem distinguishing between diabetes and hypoglycemia ...
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| Self Esteem. | 2/14/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
Q: my name is Corrina,I don't know if you can help me though,if you can't then just say so.But I have ...
A: Although it may sound trite I can simply answer your question with 'what if you got run over by a ...
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| Self Esteem. | 2/10/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
Q: my name is Corrina,I don't know if you can help me though,if you can't then just say so.But I have ...
A: You have spotted your problem already so you are half way to getting rid of it! 'I have the average ...
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| Feeling down | 2/5/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: I'm happily married and a mother of 3 young men -21,19, and 17. The oldest has been the easiest kid ...
A: I understand what you are going through, because I myself have been in a similar position as yours, ...
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| anxiety,depression,guilt | 2/3/2009 | Ravindra |
Q: I think i am having a problem with determination,and proposing what to do.I can not propose,and be ...
A: i understand your problem. first, the mere fact that you want to change yourself is a good sign. at ...
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| Hi | 2/3/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: im 13 and im called zoe i have a disability and im quiet in lessons and the teaching assistants ask ...
A: My apologies, I didn't know that. The best advice is to tell your teacher about your disability. He ...
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| Hi | 2/3/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: im 13 and im called zoe i have a disability and im quiet in lessons and the teaching assistants ask ...
A: The answer would be to speak louder. But if you feel you are shy and have problems with self-esteem ...
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| Preservation of My Self-Esteem | 2/1/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: I found out about this Christian social group so I went on activities with the male group leader. It ...
A: I fully agree. _______________________________________________ Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional ...
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| my mom age 82, and I am age 53 | 1/30/2009 | Ravindra |
Q: You see the reason that I get like this is because I keep wondering what my mom is thinking if I ...
A: when i say it is your fault, you need not blame yourself. it is only to indicate the source of the ...
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| my mom age 82, and I am age 53 | 1/30/2009 | Ravindra |
Q: You see the reason that I get like this is because I keep wondering what my mom is thinking if I ...
A: you need to change your perspective. your reactions need not be based on others' remarks,actions ...
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| My mom age 82, and I am age 53 | 1/30/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: You see the reason that I get like this is because I keep wondering what my mom is thinking if I ...
A: I cannot comment. It seems that you are very much influenced by the opinions held by your mom. May ...
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| Mom age 82, And I am age 53 | 1/30/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
Q: You see the reason that I get like this is because I keep wondering what my mom is thinking if I ...
A: I'm not sure what you want me to answer here. Your questions seem to be more about a personal ...
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| How do I look my age? | 1/29/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychologist |
Q: i know there are people, especially women, who would spend a fortune to look a few years younger. ...
A: You seem to have a low self-esteem and you blame your looks for this. A low self-esteem is a low ...
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