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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| No self esteem at all. | 6/4/2009 | Ravindra |
| Q: I don't want to sound self-pitying but as this is a big problem for me I feel like I have to speak ... A: at your age, this is not a major issue. life is for the long haul and not a few tricks and appear ... | ||
| self-esteem issues | 5/30/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
| Q: I'm 15/female and I struggle with feeling insecure and unconfident and have a low self-esteem. I'm ... A: Your counselor is right, but I will paraphrase what he or she said to give you some tips to improve ... | ||
| motivation | 5/28/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
| Q: For the most part, I consider myself an optimistic person, but there are definitely times in which ... A: Motivation can be very elusive for things we don't want to do. The trick is understanding how ... | ||
| im really negative | 5/27/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
| Q: I really need help increasing my self esteem.I don't like a lot of things about me. I'm a really ... A: Self esteem is all about what we believe about ourselves and as such can be flawed in a positive or ... | ||
| Hypoglycemia and GERD and HSP | 5/25/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: Plesman, does GERD and HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) have anything to do with being hypoglycemic? ... A: I am not a doctor, but a Nutritional Psychologist. GERD stands for Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease. ... | ||
| helo | 5/20/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: helo, how you doing. my name is grace and i jus met a friend. we ve been hanging out alot lately and ... A: This seems to boil down to a low self-esteem that says she is better that I am. To be successful in ... | ||
| I feel sad | 5/19/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: I seem to have a good life for now and a have a beautiful girlfriend that's by my side all the time. ... A: It is no good to get yourself all upset about your father. This can be overcome if you are prepared ... | ||
| Guilty Feeling | 5/19/2009 | Ravindra |
| Q: Sir, I am suffering a lot from the problem of not adhering to my plans and having a guilty feeling ... A: Whatever i told you earlier still holds good. here's a viewpoint now our brains have different ... | ||
| Guilty Feeling | 5/19/2009 | Ravindra |
| Q: Sir, I am suffering a lot from the problem of not adhering to my plans and having a guilty feeling ... A: since i dont know your age, i cannot give you specific steps. at an young age the mind is still ... | ||
| My friend's self esteem | 5/18/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I feel kind of awkward asking this but I wanted to get some advice from a professional first. I ... A: You are a very good friend to Joseph and you obviously care about his well being. If he weren't so ... | ||
| My friend's self esteem | 5/17/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
| Q: I feel kind of awkward asking this but I wanted to get some advice from a professional first. I ... A: Self esteem is what we think of ourselves and if we think bad things we'll believe them. The trick ... | ||
| no idea..... | 5/14/2009 | Jacky Tustain |
| Q: Im 17 and I've usually had some bad luk wen it comes to talkin to girls I find attractive or feel ... A: Well this problem can be overcome a lot easier than you think. First of all remember that girls are ... | ||
| My Wife | 5/6/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: My wife and I got married about 4 months ago. I have known that she was abused by her stepdad all ... A: Your wife's anxiety may be due to an underlying biochemical disorder that has the effect of ... | ||
| Taking Advantage Of Others | 5/3/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: I am a male age 16 and I have always had low self esteem as if I'm not good enough and I've always ... A: It is not pleasant to having to be in a manipulative relationship with other people. It is much ... | ||
| HypoG & ADD | 4/23/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: 1) What age is too young to take the GTT Test? 2) What is your impression of St. John's Wort, I've ... A: There are plenty of doctors around your way. Try to google search for them. Also see; Looking for ... | ||
| No Self-esteem | 4/20/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I'm a 14 year old girl and a freshman in high school. Since about two years ago, my self-esteem has ... A: I know from experience that 14 years old is a difficult, awkward stage. Your body is changing, your ... | ||
| problem | 4/18/2009 | james52144@earthlink.net |
| Q: I have a problem. I have a brother who people have is said unattractive. I am worried about looking ... A: First quit blaming your brother. He has nothing to do with your low self esteem. Second, quit being ... | ||
| beaten down | 4/17/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I have been married for 2 years now. Prior to marriage my wife and I did not have sex - which was ok ... A: This is indeed a difficult situation and two years is a very long time to endure it. You have not ... | ||
| problem | 4/14/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I know it wouldnt make my self-esteem any better but can you tell me if u think we look alike or not ... A: This is could be good news/bad news for you! The good news is that, to me, you don't look like your ... | ||
| problem | 4/14/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I have a problem. I have a brother who people have is said unattractive. I am worried about looking ... A: I guess you're worried that people might consider you weird looking too. I can understand that, but ... | ||
| problem | 4/14/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I have a problem. I have a brother who people have is said unattractive. I am worried about looking ... A: If you've read my previous answer, you would note that your looks aren't as important as YOU the ... | ||
| problem | 4/14/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I have a problem. I have a brother who people have is said unattractive. I am worried about looking ... A: First of all if your self-esteem is based solely on your looks, you do have a problem. There is more ... | ||
| Disgusted with myself | 4/13/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: I hope you can help me here a bit. Here is my story: I live with my bf (we've been together for over ... A: This stems from a low self-esteem and fortunately this can be overcome regardless of your past ... | ||
| Disgusted with myself | 4/13/2009 | james52144@earthlink.net |
| Q: I hope you can help me here a bit. Here is my story: I live with my bf (we've been together for over ... A: Only you can bring happiness to yourself. Having a boyfriend will not make you happy, obviously it ... | ||
| I need advice please! | 4/12/2009 | James |
| Q: I need to ask you something, and I'm glad you're a guy because I need a male perspective. I have ... A: Well, to tell you a little about myself first for perspective, I've never had a long term ... | ||
| eating disorder/low self esteem | 4/5/2009 | Ravindra |
| Q: I was wondering if starving yourself is considered an eating disorder. I have only gone four days ... A: you haven't revealed your age! anyway, self esteem is the only problem here. going 4 days on a fast ... | ||
| eating disorder/low self esteem | 4/5/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
| Q: Well I honestly don't feel like I have any strengths...except I am a good runner and I am good with ... A: It's really brave of you to open up, seek advice, and to share your insecurities with me -- I ... | ||
| eating disorder/low self esteem | 4/5/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: I was wondering if starving yourself is considered an eating disorder. I have only gone four days ... A: By forcing yourself not to eat, you are on the way of a very serious eating disorder called ... | ||
| Sudden depression | 4/5/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: Lately I have been feeling withdrawn from the one person I care about most, my Girlfriend. I have my ... A: Given the circumstances that you describe, what you're feeling has got to be par for the course. ... | ||
| Sudden depression | 4/5/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
| Q: Lately I have been feeling withdrawn from the one person I care about most, my Girlfriend. I have my ... A: Matthew, I am so saddened to hear of your pain, but hope I can provide you some comfort. While I ... | ||
| I have felt dead | 4/5/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: Lately I have been feeling withdrawn from the one person I care about most, my Girlfriend. I have my ... A: Of course, it difficult to say from a distance what the matter is. But I have a feeling these may be ... | ||
| I have wierd personality, please advice me about it. | 4/3/2009 | Zorka Hereford |
| Q: I need some advice about my half human half machine sort of personality . The James bond sort of ... A: I don't think you sound abnormal at all. Some people are quieter, less emotional and more logical ... | ||
| I have wierd personality, please advice me about it. | 4/3/2009 | Ravindra |
| Q: I need some advice about my half human half machine sort of personality . The James bond sort of ... A: the mere fact that you are able to analyze your emotions or lack of it shows that your mind is NOT ... | ||
| HypoG & ADD | 3/29/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: 1) What age is too young to take the GTT Test? 2) What is your impression of St. John's Wort, I've ... A: The same rules apply to children when taking an OGTT See: "Children ingest 1.75 g/kg body weight in ... | ||
| Am I nuts? | 3/28/2009 | Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist |
| Q: I'm a girl and I am 12 years old. I have a voice in my head. Her name's Spinny. She's okay I ... A: I believe that your symptoms are due to an over-secretion of stress hormones due to an underlying ... | ||
| dealing with an increasingly bad situation | 3/28/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
| Q: you might want to get some tea for this one... First off, I'm james. I'm a seventeen year old ... A: I've got some coffee for this one (I prefer it more than tea and I find it helps me produce better ... | ||
| boyz | 3/27/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
| Q: I like 2 guys alot there names are Stephen and Li. I told like that I like him but he like's ... A: This sounds like a tough situation, but I think you'll get through. Building relationships can be ... | ||
| My breasts | 3/22/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
| Q: Im 12 and i feel bad because my boodacious ta-tas (boobs) are small, what do i do!?!?!? A: I understand your plight completely! Each young woman grows and develops at a different rate and ... | ||
| In a bind | 3/19/2009 | James |
| Q: James, Thank you for volunteering for this service. I am a 25 year old female, law student. I am ... A: I find confidence is both complex and simple. A person wants to believe they are worthy of good ... | ||
| Is it only a phase? | 3/17/2009 | Zinnia Bonner |
| Q: I sometimes worry that I am lesbian or bisexual. I have only had a couple of crushes on real people ... A: Believe it or not, this is actually a common fear. You are incredibly brave for verbalizing it! ... | ||
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I have a degree in Psychology from the Sydney University and a Postgraduate Diploma in Clinical Nutrition. I am also the author of “GETTING OFF THE HOOK” which deals with the nutritional and psychological treatment of personality disorders. It is freely available on the internet at Google Book Search. I am interested in the relationship between nutrition and behaviour, and as a Probation ans Parole Officer facilitated groups for offenders, many of whom were alcoholics and drug addicts, sex offenders or compulsive gamblers, as well as the whole gamut of “personality disorders”. I am also the ex-editor of the Hypoglycemic Health Association of Australia Newsletter, a quarterly publication dealing with hypoglycemia and related health problems. Its web site, together with a shortened course of PSYCHOTHERAPY can be visited at: http://www.hypoglycemia.asn.au
Depression, Anxiety Attacks and Self-Esteem Problems, Drug Addiction and Alcoholism, Gambling, as well as the whole gamut of personality disorders.
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Author of the book "Getting off the Hook". It is freely available on the internet at Google Book Search. Various articles in Hypoglycemic Health Association's Newsletters
Education/Credentials
BA (Psych) (University of Sydney), Post Grad Dip Clin Nutr (International Academy of Nutrition)

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