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Hi, I am 19 years old and engaged. We have been trying for a baby for about a year. I have been tracking my periods, fertile days, etc. Ive bugged him about wearing loose boxers, cutting back on sodas, everything. I'm horribly terrified I may not be able to have babies. He's in the military, so starting a family is major point for us.
I'm in Texas by the way. Thank you for your time.

Hello Rosemary from the U.S. (Texas),

By definition, if a woman has not been able to achieve pregnancy after 12 months of trying, they are classified as having an infertility problem.  It is recommended that she undergo infertility testing followed by an appropriate treatment.  The treatment has to be tailored to the problem(s) so don't get duped into going straight to fertility medications by your doctor.  They are not magic and only help with the 1st two steps of the reproductive process.  I would recommend that you get a referral to a fertility specialist to undergo this evaluation.  Depending on where you are currently stationed, some of the medical centers do have a fertility specialist on staff so the evaluation won't cost you anything.  In the civilian sector, it can cost upward of $3000+.

Good Luck,

Dr. Edward J. Ramirez, M.D., FACOG
Executive Medical Director
The Fertility and Gynecology Center
Monterey Bay IVF Program

Monterey, California, U.S.A.

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Edward Joseph Ramirez, MD, FACOG


I am a specialist in infertility and advanced gynecological care. I can answer questions about infertility, gynecology related ills, menopause...virtually anything that affects women's health. PLEASE tell me where you are writing from as I am always interested.


I have been practicing as an Ob/Gyn and Infertility Specialist for over 23 years. Gynecology, advanced laparoscopic surgery, basic infertility, IUI's, IVF, reproductive surgery, and ovulation induction are all areas of my expertise. I am Board Certified. I have been doing In Vitro Fertilization in my clinic for 19 years.

American College of OB/GYN, American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology, American Society of Reproductive Medicine, California Medical Association, American Association of Gynecologic Laparoscopists, Fellow of The American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists

American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Wall Street Journal, Monterey Herald, SERMO, Women's Health and Fertility Blog

Medical Degree from Stanford University, Residency at Tripler Army Medical Center, Reproductive Training at Pacific Fertility Center, San Francisco

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