About Brigid Kowalczyk Expertise Fertility is a gift from God and infertility is a hard cross to bear. I will answer questions about the morality of the various infertility treatments. Just as contraception separates the procreative from the unitive aspects of sexual intercourse, some of the ways to concieve are immoral and thus dangerous to your spiritual and emotional well-being.
Experience Well-read and connected to various groups that recommend moral approaches to infertility treatments. I can sympathize with the pain of childlessness but also view the bigger picture. An objective discussion of your options is something to have when you are immersed in your loss.
Organizations Couple to Couple League, Inc.
National Right to Life
Education/Credentials Bachelor or Arts, Associate of Applied Science in Legal Studies, Medical Assistant
Question me and my boyfriend are both only 16 years old and decided NOT to have a real sex, today he came to my house and we were messing around, he was rubbing his penis around my genitle area and i'm scared of the clear-liquid on his penis (pre-cum) might come in to my virgina and get me pregnant. We are both virgins and he has never cum before. (the most he had was probably the clear-liquid on head of his penis) And the night after this happened i began the lst day of ovulation. IM SO SCARED! Please help me!! Will i get pregnant from this??!! Please answer! Thanks
Answer If you REALLY have decided not to have sex (wise decision) then you need to keep your clothes on at all times. The sex urge is very strong and if you are fooling around naked it's going to happen no matter what you've "decided" because your actions are not in line with your "decision".
Yes, you can get pregnant from the liquid that comes out of his penis. It doesn't take much and it doesn't have to be inside you. I doubt you did get pregnant this time but you are playing with fire, so don't do it again. No 16 year old boy or girl is ready to be a parent. But you will be one and he will be gone.
If you are not old enough to be a parent, then you are not old enough to have sex. If you can't afford to raise a child with the child's father, then you shouldn't be having sex, even the kind you are having. Which I'll bet isn't all that much fun for you since you have to do all the worrying about getting pregnant and he's having all the fun, right?
No birth control is 100% so no matter what you do, you will always be worrying.
