About SDW Expertise I would be happy to answer any questions regarding any situation you have with your inlaws. I have been married for many years, have been church affiliated and/or a staff member for over 20 years, and have counseled many people in that capacity. I take pride in providing answers that will give honest insight and concrete direction to go forward like many of the wellknown advice counselors. I believe that being a shoulder for you to lean on is important but much more important is advice that you can put into action to make your life better!
Experience I have several years of psychology education, many years of counseling experience, and have been very helpful in my own family. It is a wonderful feeling to realize that you have helped others and made their lives better.
Education/Credentials Many years of church counseling, Several years of psychology course work, BSA in accounting, and MBA candidate.
Expert: SDW Date: 3/26/2008 Subject: well soon to be sister in-law living with us
Question well am 22yrs engaged for now almost 7 months now, my fiance is deployed for a yr. when he returns his siter is planning to move to where he is.... and by that time we would have been married. I would call myself an introvert individual, but i do have siblings. am not sure if i could handle staying with my husband and his sister after just getting married. How should i deal with this idea?
Answer The first year of marriage is important and you must have time to live with your husband alone to get used to each other. In your case it is even more important that you have your time alone because you husband is a soldier.
I would recommend mentioning this to your fiance and asking him if there is any way that you guys could start your marriage off on a good footing instead of adding difficulties.
