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|Comment||Thank you very much for your input. My husbands MIL decided that she wanted to figure out her living situation on her own and has made some "bogus" excuses as to why. She has been ignoring my husbands calls. I believe she is doing this because she doesn't want to get into special housing or shelters and would much rather have us take care of her. She has mentioned a while back ago to my husband that she would rather be homeless then to go to a shelter for help. I think she has some serious issues with structure or doing things on her own. We may be placed in a situation where she may try to ask to stay with us again but I had told my husband that it isnt healthy and with the fertility treatments we will be starting at the end of the month, I simply cant be stressed and neither should he. So for now, we have resolved the issue of MIL staying with us. I did mention the idea you have suggested regarding having all the siblings chip in on paying for a place for their mom, but the older two siblings have refused to do that, and without their help, myself, my husband and my husbands younger sister cannot do it on our own. At this point, MIL is on her own. Shes resistant to seek help via a shelter and so it would be harder to help her do what she needs to do unfortunately. :) Ty for your help.|
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