Inlaw Relations/Question pool
I don't quite understand why you could not answer my question, it seemed right up your area of expertise .
However moving it to the question pool really sucks. It's taken me. 2 decades to get the courage to seek help and now my life's issues sits in a pool where the whole world can see it.
You could have had the very least of decency to reject in accordance to my privacy.
I wasn't going to be able to answer in a timely manner. I wanted it to be answered so that is why I sent it to the question pool. In short I would suggest you stop contact with your family in-laws as they seem abusive and your mamma bear instinct is correct.