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About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee)
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I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.

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I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
 
   

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Interracial Relationships - being the other guy


Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 3/23/2008

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Hello, i was hoping you could give a little advice. My girlfriend is married and dosent know if she is ever going to leave her husband. She tells me she doesnt do anything with him. She sees me multiple times a day she tells me she loves me. We do everything together i have met her faimly she has met mine. She dosent disrespect me when it comes to a realationship she choses me over him all the time. I love her unconditionally... I am a white male she is a black female so this situation is hard all the way around because we get looks from every angle..can you just give me some advice because i believe she is my soul mate and i don't want to give her up...

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Hello
Well I'm not sure what you are asking me since you didn't give me an exact question but why is she still sticking with her husband? She is already cheating, she has already met your family... I'm just not sure why she wouldn't want to leave him. Is she keeping him around for financial reasons? If she does love you then she needs to leave this guy. You cannot just keep dealing with all of this and only getting a vague response from her like maybe she will leave him, she's not sure. If she is doing this, then she needs to leave him... it's as simple as that. The only reason I don't see her leaving this guy is because she needs him for financial support, she really does love him and is unsure about who she wants, or if there are children involved she is sticking around for them. So you need to discuss this and ask her to leave this guy, and if not what is going on, why can't she. You cannot just continue being around... that way she has everything. She has whatever her husband provides and whatever you provide. In that case this isn't love, and is more or less just using you both. so talk to her about that and don't continue to do this until she tells you that she will be ending it soon.
Melissa

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