| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| foreign accents | 1/7/2009 | Ian Kemp |
Q: Ian I live in a medium size Canadian city with a lot of receny immigrants and foreign students ...
A: .. and something I can identify with as a tourist in the US (haven't been to Canada) people could ...
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| My mom give in? | 1/5/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: i have been dating this guy who is an indian and my self is a chinese. We have been together 4 ...
A: The sad thing about parents who are bent on tradition is that they don't understand that you fell in ...
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| interracial relation | 1/2/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: My boyfriend is white. i love him so much. i have 2 kids and he has 2 kids from previous marriage. ...
A: This is 2009 I don't understand why people are still stuck on race when it's time to get over it. If ...
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| dating. asian. relationship. | 12/31/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: my name is Aaron. I'm 17, and all i wanted to know is, i find the Japanese/Chinese women very ...
A: I hope I can help. My advice is to remember that most people don't want ethnicity, or skin colour, ...
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| My family disaproves of my interraccial relationship | 12/30/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have recently started my first interracial relationship. My family is not racist but has always ...
A: I had this issue too until I learned that the ignorance hurts the person behind it in the end. Don't ...
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| Dating / Jealousy | 12/29/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I've been going out with this man whom I've met online for about 5 months. He is wondeful, very ...
A: My take on this is that guys have a hard time letting female friends go when they are involved or ...
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| dating a Nicaraguan woman | 12/24/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I'm Caucasian & seeing for 2 months a Nicaraguan woman with 2 children (which I've met before) from ...
A: In latin cultures the brothers are always protective of their sisters especially if she's been ...
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| My Girlfriends Parents | 12/23/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: Me and My girlfriend have been together for almost 10 months now, there's only one problem. Her ...
A: One of the things I've learned about IR dating is that not everyone is going to agree with the ...
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| Interracial marriages | 12/18/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I am an Indian guy, born and brought up in a traditional Indian Family. I am currently in love in ...
A: Interracial relationships only work if the people in it are willing to make it work. If you love ...
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| Dating an Albanian men, if you are dark skin color | 12/4/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: I was dating an Albanian man for almost 6 months; I am Hispanic/Latino, with very dark skin. ...
A: To my simple mind this seems to have little to do with interracial relationships. If the guy wants ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 12/2/2008 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I am pretty sure that I love my husband,more than anything.But why is something underestimating that ...
A: Well according to what you previously said you do not want to lose him or be without him. If that's ...
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| Korean girlfriend | 12/1/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: im so happy to find a person like you that can help me with my relationship... My girlfriend is ...
A: ...well I think you know what you have to do! Arrange with your girl that you will get to meet the ...
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| Korean girlfriend | 11/29/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: im so happy to find a person like you that can help me with my relationship... My girlfriend is ...
A: I hope I can help. To me it sounds like you are encountering the reality of an intercultural ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 11/28/2008 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I am pretty sure that I love my husband,more than anything.But why is something underestimating that ...
A: I'm not you, so I really can't tell you this for sure, but I'm pretty sure that you are very much in ...
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| My parents disappr ove me n boyfriend / Love because he is indian/Hindu? | 11/28/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: I'm Chinese..Singaporean. My partner is also Singaporean. My parents are driving me crazy .. Ladies ...
A: That is so sad to hear that your dad is so against your bf that he puts you down like that. Firstly ...
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| My parents disappr ove me n boyfriend / Love because he is indian/Hindu? | 11/24/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I'm chinese ..22 coming 23 next yr march singaporean. My parents are driving me crazy .. some ...
A: One of the things that I've understood about various cultures and their beliefs is that many want ...
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| My parents disappr ove me n boyfriend / Love because he is indian/Hindu? | 11/24/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: I'm Chinese..Singaporean. My partner is also Singaporean. My parents are driving me crazy .. Ladies ...
A: Yes a difficult situation and very sad but also unfortunately quite common. I can understand that ...
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| interracial relationship | 11/22/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for the past years and have been the best moments of my ...
A: a difficult situation but unfortunately quite common. I can understand that you probably want to ...
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| interracial relationship | 11/22/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for the past years and have been the best moments of my ...
A: Starting off your mother can't tell you who you can and cannot see you're 19 years old. Eventually ...
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| How to? | 11/21/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: What can I do to shorten the initial typecasting gap between two people of different racial ...
A: Sorry I'm not sure I can really answer as I don't understand your situation. Perhaps you are trying ...
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| Im black and she is white | 11/14/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: There is this girl at my school that I have been talking to for a while and we are really attracted ...
A: Here's my take why should it matter that you're black and she's white I mean this is 2008 going into ...
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| *** What should we do??? *** | 11/13/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 21. We've been together for over 2 years and are both in college. She's ...
A: It sounds like you expect an exclusive relationship whereas the lady thinks it’s ok to give ...
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| Need Advice Plzz | 11/10/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: We get along so well we are always laughing, cracking jokes, talking about wanted to be with each ...
A: I think firstly your family, your dad and your sister care about you and want to look after you – if ...
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| interracial relationships | 11/7/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: Why do people make a big deal about a white woman being with a black/ African-American man yet if ...
A: This is what I don't understand about society and their reaction to interracial dating whether it's ...
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| Im black Shes white | 10/26/2008 | Ian Kemp |
Q: Ill try to keep it as short as possible....My girl is white and her father is not willing to let a ...
A: I don't think you need to worry about being an ambassador for all afro-americans. Just be your usual ...
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| Family doesn't accept interracial relationship | 10/21/2008 | LaShaunda Glass |
Q: I am currently in a bind. My boyfriend has given me an ultimatum. I have to tell my WHOLE family ...
A: Situations like this tend to be very common amongst interracial relationships. This is something ...
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| Advice Please?! | 10/20/2008 | LaShaunda Glass |
Q: Hey! I'm Brittainy and I'm 14 years old (a freshman). I'm interested in my 16 year old neighbor ...
A: It depends on why you are only interested in White males. If your reasons are stereotypical, ...
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| interracial relationships | 10/17/2008 | Jessica Main |
Q: i am a white American woman and i am dating a Honduran man.he came to the U.S. to work, but he has ...
A: Susie, I'm sorry in advance that this answer will be a bit incomplete, as I found the question a ...
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| what do black guys want with white women | 10/14/2008 | Jessica Main |
Q: I have been married to a black guy for several years and during this time I have come to the point ...
A: First and foremost, I'm sorry you are going through this. Secondly...RUN! I've dealt with this type ...
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| boy in school | 10/9/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: i am a 16 year old black girl (a senior in high school) and i go to a school that is very diverse. ...
A: I would go for it since he seems really nice and he seems to catch your fancy, but keep the deal ...
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| my ex and her racist boyfriend | 9/11/2008 | Jessica Main |
Q: I have a little bit of a problem. I'm a 22 year old black male. My ex and I have been friends for a ...
A: First, allow me to apologize for having made you wait so long for a reply. Only Linda knows why she ...
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| not dating same race | 9/8/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I feel guilty..I am a young black female of 23 years of age and I was wondering, how should I feel ...
A: Adrianna, I am currently in your position right now and it's funny as I don't know what. I don't ...
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| dating | 8/16/2008 | Jessica Main |
Q: Im a black male 18 and my girlfriend is a lovly white female 18. The question is my girlfriend wants ...
A: I apologize again for the delay. Ok, let's say for a second that they DO know about You. Let's also ...
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| dating | 8/16/2008 | Jessica Main |
Q: Im a black male 18 and my girlfriend is a lovly white female 18. The question is my girlfriend wants ...
A: Let's forget for a second that You are black and your lovely girlfriend is white :) (just for a ...
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| Isues | 8/15/2008 | Jessica Main |
Q: I am a 34 year old woman in an interracial relationship. I am black and my boyfriend is white. We ...
A: You're right, the book is aimed toward the "married audience"...however, it's morals, tips and ...
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| just wondering about something.. | 8/13/2008 | LaShaunda Glass |
Q: Basically i am white jewish and i was going out with a muslim indian guy. We got on very well and ...
A: Even though most people would say you're "too young to fall in love", I don't think that. I do think ...
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| Love and relationships | 8/13/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: Background info: I am 32 years old and my partner Carol is also 32. We have been together for ...
A: I hate to put it bluntly, but rebound relationships don't work and if you met right as she was ...
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| Interracial relationships | 8/8/2008 | LaShaunda Glass |
Q: I am a 20yr old blk female and my bf is white and he is 22. We have dated since I was 17 on and off ...
A: I also question your relationship with this guy and his intentions. Some of the things he said to ...
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| Interracial Dating Question. | 8/8/2008 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: Hey, I'm 16 first of all, and i just broke up with a girl and have been having a hard time getting ...
A: First and foremost, you dating an Asian girl will not look strange at all, and will be completely ...
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| Her Parents | 7/28/2008 | Alexander McDawson |
Q: I will try and keep this as short as possible, but I apologize in advance if things just come ...
A: I have had many similar to it. It sounds like your girlfriend is at a crossroads between her love ...
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