About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.
Experience I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
Question I am an attractive 34 year old mom with one child of 11 whom I love dearly. We recently went on a vacation to the Dominican Republic where I met a wonderful man who is 27 years old and from Haiti. I have been home for 3 weeks and we have called and text message one another like crazy. I think I am in love yet facing reality I am asking if this is a holiday romance or whether we should be talking about seeing one another again. He is trying to get a visa to come to the U.S. and I am debating about going back for another visit.
My mind tells me to cool it but the hormones are raging!
I would appreciate your advice.
Answer Hi Stephanie
Well sometimes people really connect but if you want to play it safe I really feel like you should try to just cool it down. There's a big possibility that this may work but you both would really need to be committed and figure out a way where you both can see each other on a regular basis. So I don't think you should give up on this guy just because of the obstacles but I think that you both need to really talk about how realistic this situation is and how you guys would like to go about this. The last thing any of you want is getting caught up, realizing that this situation may be too difficult, and pretty much just giving up and getting hurt in the process. So I think this might be worth it as long as you both are realistic. At this point (3 weeks) it's difficult to say if this is just a brief romance or something serious but I'm sure as time goes on, you will figure that out yourself.
Melissa
