About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.
Experience I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
Question to me and for my kids i will see no problem in them dating out side thier own race but i am dating a manthat is not white and i am a teen.
i have been going out with my b.f for 4 years and i see it is going very very well
my parents say ohh its a phase she will move on and find some one else. but 4 years to me is not a phase at all
can u help me make any sense out of this?
thank you!
what can i do or say to make them understand that just b.c im white doesnt mean i have to marry white
Answer Hey Karolina
Honestly you can never really make your parents think a certain way. That's the way they think and the only way they'll change is if they force themselves to change. It's like if someone tried to force you to think interracial dating was bad. I mean they really couldn't cause it's your opinion and that wont change unless you let it to. don't worry they'll change eventually. And if they don't they'll just get used to the guy being around that race wont even make a difference after a while. Just be patient they'll come around. I know it's been 4 years and really long to you but maybe it'll take another year or 2 years or who knows how long. But they'll come around eventually or just get used to him and not even care anymore. I hope everything works out for you, and that your family will change their views on your relationship! Good luck with this guy! I wish you the best of luck!
Melissa
