About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.
Experience I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
Question im a Malaysian girl who is having a relationship with a canadian guy who work in my country.i met him through a friend in a night club 10 month ago.i never thought that i will be with him since that the place that we met was not a good place.he is a nice guy with a good sense of humour.he loves to make friends with everybody and because of the friendliness with all his friends especially girls make me feel uncomfortable and worried while he's out.he loves to party with his friend on weekend and he didnt allow me to go as well.he want me to stop drinking and stop going to that kind of place.he changed me a lot and i really thanks to him to make me realized how important to have a good career and a good life.everything is just so perfect accept two things that i really worried about this realtionship;flirting with girls and a family background.his family want him to get married with his own races and he have to admit with the decision.its very hurt me that his not going to marry me but i still want to be with him.i know i'm just wasting my time but i cant do anything since that i love him so much.i still want him eventhough i know what's going to be happen in future because for me at least i'm trying to make him realize that im the one for him.do you think i make a right decision for still being with him?
Answer Hello
Actually I don't feel you made the right decision by staying with him. I know you love him but staying with him will only lead you down a road of heart break. according to you he said that he will definitely not marry you. So what's the point of staying with him. By agreeing to this and going along with it not only will he still be able to be with you but he wont have to be committed to you or anything. You are making this very easy for him. If you really want him to know you are the one then don't agree to it. Say something like I love you but I can't be with someone who doesn't want to commit to me like that. If he loves you he wont let you go. He will reconsider his idea of trying to find someone his own race. If he doesn't try then he's not worth your time period. But agreeing to this wont change anything. He will just use whatever you allow him to use and you will only get your heart broken. Let go of him and let him chase you. Taht's the way for him to know you're right for him.
Melissa
