About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.
Experience I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
Follow-Ups to Answer from Expert Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee)
T wrote at 2006-12-10 11:18:34
Hon - as an older "white guy" let me explain one thing to you: even though there may be "ugly people" out there bottom line is - COLOR is a PREFERENCE. We all have the same parts (and BTW, stereotypes lie about that - lol), emotions and needs. Pursue what your heart wants, and I believe you will find what it needs.
Russell Andrews wrote at 2007-04-02 00:21:09
Well, I am white. I think black girls are just as hot as white girls, if not hotter. That's just my opinion. If you live in the Southeast, a lot of white guys won't date black girls because it's considered bad. I live in the Southeast now. :( But I use to live in the North. I do know some white guys that like black girls too, but most won't go out with a black girl because one of their parents is a racist or something like that.
BearsLonghorns54 wrote at 2007-04-13 03:30:32
Hi there,
I am a 33 year old white guy. I may or may not be too old for you (hopefully not, hehe), but I have always been attracted to black girls. And I think that there are white guys out there that would definitely date a black girl. I notice that black girls are attracted to me and i get more positive attention from them than white girls. So I not only would date a black girl, I am actually very interested in doing so. Many white guys would be more than happy to be approached by a cute nubian lady.
Nick wrote at 2007-07-13 21:29:05
Hi.
I am a white guy. I reckon you should just treat him as a guy. Look him in the eye and smile, Leave the rest to nature. Good luck. There are good guys and bad guys. The skin colour doesnt make much difference.
Best of Luck
Nick
shawn wrote at 2007-09-13 06:24:46
I am a white guy and personally I love black women. the easiest way is to go talk to them, not matter what the color of someone is its always easier if you take the first step. You might be suprised to find that he finds you attractive too.
Mac wrote at 2007-11-03 01:14:45
Well, I just wanted to say I am a white guy who thinks black girls are very attractive. I have dated a couple and they never really felt a connection, until after it was over. They said I was so nice and sweet, they thought that I couldn't be right. (Plus I don't believe in premarried sex either). Black girls just seem like they really want a man to respect them, and then they will treat him like a king
dave wrote at 2007-12-02 08:07:35
I think there are a lot of white guys who are interested in black girls. I think you should just act normally and eventually, perhaps sooner than you think, someone will show interest. I'm considerably older than you so don't take this as an offer, but I know my first choice in women has always been black. I have no idea why. Even when I was a child, my favorite actresses were black. But it took me, because of circumstances until I was in my 30s to finally date several black women. Believe me, I would have loved to have a black show interest in me when I was a teenager. Unfortunately, because of where I lived there just weren't any. It's funny, but I think I understand better than most what its like being attracted to people you're not supposed to be attracted to. What finally gave me the courage to ask was when I asked myself the question, "with all these black guys chasing after white women who's minding the store?" The answer apparently was no one, or very few because I had my pick of some gorgeous ladies.
Ryan wrote at 2007-12-03 22:26:40
I love black girls, thats all I go for. I am white too
Justin wrote at 2007-12-19 04:31:24
hey,
well I'm a white guy, who loves black girls and have dated them before, and I would just say to be upfront, let them know u like them, because I wasn't sure black girls would like me either unil I talked to them, but I was apprehensive at first
Mike wrote at 2007-12-20 17:46:06
Good advice. I am more attracted to a certain type of black girl more so than any of my own race. (white guy) What makes it easy to talked to any girl is an alluring smile. I always responded well to any attractive black girl who seemed interested. Had some hot long lasting relationships. Married now to a dark latin girl. Very happy now, two kids, going on fifteen years.
shane daly wrote at 2008-04-18 03:11:28
I am a white guy attracted to black girls so im sure you are going to find someone like me. Its not hard to tell when a guy is attracted to you.
DCNeuro wrote at 2008-06-01 03:36:07
White guys do like black women (not speaking of fake gangsta white boys, but real white men). It is exotic and black women tend to have the furnace turned up a little (wink, wink) that stimulates white men. There are Pheremones (did I spell that right) that white guys are attracted to that black women produce. As someone who loves dating decent, well spoken African American women, these are all true.
me wrote at 2008-10-14 13:14:32
Hey,
White men are attracted to black girls no different than any other type. I will say though that there are a large number of white men who are a little nervous about coming out and making it public knowledge. Yes, this is most certainly a tradgity. Usually it's up to the man to pursue the woman. Well if the woman makes it the case to pursue in this type of relationship, she may be more successful. White men are typically bombarded with the idea that they are not adequate enough for a black woman. This can be most intimidating for a man. Help him get over this fear, and you will be on your way. Second, be patient with a white man. Initially a white man may appear only interested in interracial sex or experimentation, however if you show you have more to offer he will be more intrigued. Dating a white guy for a while before giving in to the pressure of sexual wanting is a good thing. Third is gently discuss the idea about what his family will think and how they might accept it. If a persons family won't accept you, there is a strong chance he won't in the long run. In the end, don't just give up because one or even two guys turn out to be the wrong person. There are white men out there who find the ladies of the darker persuasion quite a catch!
Rick660 wrote at 2009-01-05 13:48:26
Well I am a white guy who has been in a wonderful relationship with a black girl for the last three years. I can honestly say I find them more attractive.
I do think sometimes white guys and black girls find it a bit daunting to start chatting up the opposite sex, which is weird because black men and white women don't seem to have this problem.
But with internat dating, people can actually state their preference, and you are know seeing in London at least more black women dating white men. I can only see this becoming more of the norm.
Joe wrote at 2009-05-25 01:56:48
My opinion is very simple.
Real guys {aka-good/nice guys) that like women do not even think about color. Also, I seem to recall that a popular belief is that men are color blind!
I'm so white I can barely muster up a sun tan. However, I have mostly been with girls that have skin darker than mine. Buenos Airian, Puerto Rican, African American and most recently Mexican. The main thing for me is that a girl is honest, sweet, nice and beautiful to me.
