About Michelle Expertise I can answer questions regarding interracial dating between all types of races: Middle Eastern, black, Hispanic, white, Asian, etc. I have literally dated men from each of these races and 100% feel that colour should NOT matter in a relationship. I can answer questions such as what do you when your parents are not understanding, religious barriers that you are afraid to cross, nd problems you may face in society as an interracial couple. I can answer questions from both heterosexual and homosexual couples.
Experience I have dated men from literally all races and feel men are men, no matter the colour of their skin. All men feel anger, sadness, shyness, embarrassment and sexual arousal. All men need a companion in life.
Tina wrote at 2006-06-21 05:55:48
I feel like its ok to date outside your race and asked your parents where in the bible if forbids interratial dating. I was once like your parents. I am a black girl from Zimbabwe and have found myself having fallen in love with my boyfriend who is an Italian American white man. I never thought I would like a white man. We have been together ten months now. I do not even notice our skin is different any more.
Bridgit wrote at 2009-03-07 22:23:27
If you both speak English, then you are of the same race. Same race with a different shade - they call us Americans. People forget that we are the melting pot that integrated many backgrounds into one. There is so much melting in Americans...we really can't say what we are. And all the grandmas and grandfathers keep secret of what leaked in their family trees from the past. As far as honoring your mother and father...well, it's time to honor yourself. This is your life, not theirs. They need to honor you and your choices as a man. You're not a little boy anymore.
bigmama wrote at 2009-03-17 13:57:47
My 15 year old son came home telling us about a girl he liked at school who is black. My first thoughts were not good and I was surprised at myself. Being in the south...I suppose I am a product of my environment, being a Christian I hold myself to higher standards and try to make my decisions based on how to honor God...who is my Holy Father. When I prayed and meditated on it, I realized that the problem should not be the skin color...whether it is (I don't call someone African American if they weren't born in Africa) black, brown, asian, etc. The issue that needs to be in the forefront is are they "equally yolked"? That means, is the girl he is considering dating someone who shares our beliefs and our values? Is she being raised in a home that believes that Christ is the son of God and died and was resurrected in the name of our salvation? If so, then this person should be good enough for my son to pursue. I am not saying that I am not having a hard time with it, but that is something I will have to overcome with prayer and scripture. One of the girls he was considering who happens to be black...sent him text messages that aren't in line with our beliefs and even were the girl caucasian, I wouldn't allow him to date her. So...my point is the question isn't about race...we are all one with Jesus when we believe, the question is "does she believe like we do?" If not...therein lies the problem (in my house).
