About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.
Experience I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
Follow-Ups to Answer from Expert Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee)
Breezie wrote at 2006-06-19 04:30:44
Hi
I am biased to the last post. I am also a mixed black girl in Southern Cali. I grew up in Texas were inter-racial dating is definitely not as accepted. Since I have been here I have done alot of it.
For a girl I have a high sex drive and I think that makes a difference in my life. I actually do care about the size of the penis. Which makes me hesitant when certain guys talk to me.
But I have proven myself wrong with a couple of boyfriends of a different races. I am still always hesitant though.
I am sure men have some thoughts about a woman's kitty. I don't know what, that would be interesting to know.
Rahul wrote at 2008-05-20 23:52:05
No this is not true. one of the main components in the western culture for interracial dating is primarily based with the structure of the genitilia (directly or indirectly). The other reason is the billion-dollar porno industry and culture that emphasises upon this notion. In a free=world of today, women are free to express their desires and it is natural for them to prefer a man with a bigger penis (better satisfaction or natural selection.) However, intelligent women have a much better knowledge of things beside a "bigger penis" so if i were you kyle, i would try to date a woman from an (asian background because of their sizes and upbringing culture) or if not, u need to date a woman who is very educated. Im telling you this because i face the same problem. unfortunately melissa here has a very partial knowledge about the truth. i have LIVED through it mate. cheers, Rahul im from aus
Summyrshine wrote at 2008-10-02 02:01:57
Hwy that is soo not true here in southern california. I am black ok i consider myself black but i am mixed with latina but that is besides the point my boyfriend of 2 years if a filipino. I am loving it
chris wrote at 2009-06-01 22:10:30
I think women care about ethnicity more than you think. When I go to a bar with my black colleague, who is border-line scary looking, women give him attention all the time just because he's black. What's funny is that other guys want to be friends with him because he's black and that's cool. I live in a mostly white town so this is common.
The same thing goes with tall or physically big guys, they get more attention from women and men give them a lot of respect even if they're slow and boring as hell. I think black guys mostly enjoy good media attention while asian guys get the least attention and that's not because of penis size but a long history. Physically big guys attract naive girls on a more basic level.
However, I think intelligent girls have a completely different set of standards that aren't as superficial. I've seen beautiful open-minded white girls in serious relationships with asian guys and asian girls in serious relationships with guys who aren't body-builders or gangsta wannabes. So there is an intelligent population out there, you just have to meet those people at the right places. The general youth population is dumb and impressionable regardless of what country you are in.
