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About D.J.
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I can answer almost everything as long as it is explained clearly and completely! I am also knowledgeable about LGBT issues.If I am not sure about an answer I can recommend outside resources that will help, such as books, websites and movies.

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I am currently and have been dating interracially (white, latino, asian, biracial) for over 5 years. I also am researching interracial relationships, as well as biracial young adults. I live in a very diverse area (Philadelphia), and I have many biracial family members- (Japanese, White, Latino, South Asian). I also have lived in England for a while so I have had a chance to observe relations abroad.

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I am currently working on my thesis dealing with interracial dating!

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I attend a prestigious college right now, and I am majoring in Sociology with a minor in Economics. I am somewhat fluent in Spanish and I am learning Korean.

 
   

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Interracial Relationships - friend's problem


Expert: D.J. - 10/17/2006

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i have a very good friend and one day she fight with another good friend of mine . And out of sudden she is angry with me too and i don know wat is the cause . i asked her if there is anything i had done wrong but she wouldn't even look at me and just said 'leave me alone' . it had been weeks i try to persuade her but nothing change . i personally think that because i was still talking the another friend of mine and that is why she is angry .I JUST DON UNDERSTAND WHY CANT THEY BE A LITTLE BIT MORE MATURE ! wat u think i can do so we can be a very good friend like last time ?

Answer
hi nikkie : )

I'm not sure what your answer has to do with interracial relationships but I will answer to the best of my ability.

  If your friend is not talking to you right now, it is probably best that you give her a little time to cool off. You think you know why she might be angry but perhaps there's something going on in your friendship that you weren't aware of or maybe her problems have nothing to do to you. You really can't be sure until she comes out and tells you. In the mean time, show her love, leave her a nice note somewhere, be polite and friendly to her. Show her you still care about her and that you want to be her friend.
  I will caution you however, that if your friend continues to behave this way without giving a good reason ( and not talking to you because you still talk to your other friend she doesn't like is NOT a good reason by the way), then perhaps you have outgrown your friends and it  is time for you to find more mature friends who can handle their problems in a more efficient, adult manner.

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