About Susie Igras Expertise I am currently in an interracial relationship. I can answer any questions you may have in dealing with interracial relationships. I have been through many of the same problems such as not being accepted, pressure from society, fights with parents or family, and myths about dating someone of a diffirent race. I can also answer any overall relationship questions. There is no such thing as an ignorant questions but I will not answer any questions that are unacceptable or rude.
Experience I have been involved in an interracial relationship for the past 5 years. I am enaged to a wonderful black man who I love more than life itself.
Education/Credentials I have taken several psychology college courses and communcation classes.
Question I've been with this guy for 7 1/2 months. I've been through so much with him. None of my family members will except him. My mom is the only one who completely understands how i feel, and knows what i'm going through. My dad won't let me see or talk to him, and i've put myself under so much stress over it. This boy means the world to me. I don't know what i would do without him. I plan on moving in with him when i'm 18. I only have a couple of months. But what do i do in the mean time? How do i keep myself from going through so much pain?
Answer If you will be moving out soon and moving in with him, staying with a friend in the mean time may be a good idea. Or with another relative that accept's you bf. Just as a temporary place to stay till you can move with him. In the mean time between moving around you can try to speak to your dad and explain to him. I know he will not want to listen and more than likely argue with you over it. However, you will be 18 and old enough to make your own choices. Therefore you should be able to decide what relationships are good for you and which one's aren't. I hope this helps. If you need anything else please ask.
