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| Asian/White relationship...I am confused | 11/1/2009 |
Q: I am a 17 years old guy senior year in high school, I have these questions after I read several ...
A: Percy, Sounds to me you have a preference for white females, but a lot of asian males are also ...
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| interracial dating | 10/4/2009 |
Q: k, i dont no wht to do, my parents really dont interracial dating so i dont no how to tell them that ...
A: It's going to take time for your parents to accept the fact that social standards have changed in 40 ...
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| I dont understand where I fit in... | 10/3/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is white and I'm British Asian we don't have a bad relationship for the most part. ...
A: You've been with this guy 2 years and his friend and ex is treating you like crap? That's totally ...
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| Friends or looking for more? | 9/11/2009 |
Q: I am a divorced, 34 yrs old latin woman that has dated Middle Eastern/Muslim men in the past (not my ...
A: I was raised muslim and I wouldnt get drawn into Islam seriously.....I am telling you this from ...
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| whitemen dating black woman | 9/8/2009 |
Q: If a white man dates a black woman or have dated a black woman in the past how would he treat the ...
A: It depends on the woman because every black woman a white guy may date is different and his ...
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| Dating woman from Nicaragua | 8/5/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a woman from Nicaragua with three kids by two different men for six months. The ...
A: I wouldnt be comfortable with that arrangement because you're the man this woman's dating and ...
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| interracial relationships | 7/21/2009 |
Q: My husband and I are white,british. Our son (27) has met a british Indian woman (30).Her Indian ...
A: Typically indian parents want their kids to marry within the same race because of the high ...
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| Could it be because he's Indian and I'm black? | 7/5/2009 |
Q: okay this is going to be long,I hope you don't mind.This has been bothering me for a while now and ...
A: This maybe this guy's first interracial relationship. Indians tend to be very traditional and want ...
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| another interracial and "interreligious" relationship | 6/24/2009 |
Q: I am happy to have found this. You seem to be able to at least provide some valuable insight in an ...
A: I am in a relationship myself with a white guy and I just met his parents like 3 months ago and it's ...
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| dating | 5/28/2009 |
Q: wow I just read your answers and it makes me sad to hear sisters like yourself denigrate brothers. ...
A: You could have saved yourself the time wasted to write me such crap. Every black woman is not ...
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| Black men and white women | 5/24/2009 |
Q: Why do white women like black men?
A: White women have been fed that crap about black men being well endowed down below and many are ...
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| Issues With Interracial Relatioships | 5/20/2009 |
Q: 1.) How do stereotypes and prejudices affect the couples, children, and families of interracial ...
A: Ok to answer your1. Stereotypes and prejuduces affect by making couples feel isolated and ostracized ...
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| Filipino/chineese and Mexican American | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. Things are good. But the only thing that concerns ...
A: I think your boyfriend is afraid that his family won't accept you and that's sometimes a fear if ...
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| Query | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I am a brown guy and I really like this Korean girl in my school. There is a vast cultural barrier ...
A: Try studying some Korean culture and learn about the traditions of Koreans so this girl will feel ...
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| Stay or Leave | 4/25/2009 |
Q: I'm a black woman and have been through the storms with a guy who is white. We write each other ...
A: Sounds to me like he's not being honest with you because if he didnt want a relationship he should ...
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| his Indian parents | 4/3/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend are dating for 10 months. I'm 26, he is 30. I am from South East Asia. The ...
A: I wouldnt worry about it since your boyfriend is happy and if his parents can't see that it's their ...
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| neice hanging up on the phone | 3/28/2009 |
Q: I have a niece who is 36 years old and had one son in wedlock. She called to ask for help regarding ...
A: For starters your niece is acting she's 36 going on 16. She's too grown for that nonsense of hanging ...
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| Is is normal to only be attracted to a certain race of men? | 3/26/2009 |
Q: I here some people say they don't care about the race of a person. They say they only care about ...
A: Pamela, I too faced that loveless and sexless type of feeling towards black men and when I actually ...
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| Need Advice? | 3/16/2009 |
Q: and he wants to be able to make me his again he was saying he wants to treat me how i should been ...
A: Take care of buisness first and that is your obligation to school. First off if your ex is ...
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| Interracial relationships | 3/12/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is of mixed heritage. His father is African American and Indian and his mother ...
A: I am of mixed heritage of African-American, Native American, and European ancestry, and my boyfriend ...
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| White Aussie + Indian Girl | 3/10/2009 |
Q: I am a fully home grown white Aussie and i have just started a relationship with a Canadian born ...
A: I am in your position I am a black girl who's dating a white guy and just a few days ago when we had ...
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| help | 3/5/2009 |
Q: Okay i am a sophomore in college, there was this foreign guy in my class last year that I seemed to ...
A: This is 2009 don't let anything stop you from getting to know this guy if you're feeling him let him ...
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| Dating | 3/1/2009 |
Q: I'm a black teenager who lives in Alabama. Before I start, I have no problem with dating in my own ...
A: I would say try and talk to this girl find out stuff about her and if she's even looking to date. If ...
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| Asian-Asian relationships | 2/27/2009 |
Q: I was wondering, if people consider Asians dating other Asians, as in a Chinese man dating a ...
A: no this doesnt sound interracial if you're dating people of the same ethnic background. Since all ...
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| Indian-Caucasian Relationship | 2/25/2009 |
Q: I am originally from India but live permanently in America now. Wouldn't call myself a ritualistic ...
A: I too am dating interracially and he was raised catholic and I was raised muslim and so far it's ...
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| Interracial Relationships | 2/4/2009 |
Q: Ok... I am a 20 year old white woman dating a black man. I love him but what do i need to look out ...
A: Look out for what.....it's 2009 people need to get over their ignorance of interracial dating and ...
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| help with first interracial relationship/ relationship advice | 1/28/2009 |
Q: this is is my first interracial relationship. these questions are mixed with what to do and what is ...
A: I would take into consideration that this guy is almost 10 years older than you. We're looking at ...
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| I only like white guys and I think that black guys are weird | 1/26/2009 |
Q: Well Im in high school and ever since third grade I've always had crushesvon white guys or guys of ...
A: I like yourself went to a predominantly white school and I too fell in love with white guys, but the ...
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| I'm black and she's white | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I've been talking to/recently started seeing this white girl for about 2yrs now and we are very ...
A: It's hard to deal with racism especially if its in your family, but your girl is an adult she ...
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| my korean girlfriend | 1/16/2009 |
Q: I've been dating my korean girlfriend for 7 months...but we have not been happy at all. the reson ...
A: I don't know what I can say because you don't want to be with someone who's treating you mean and in ...
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| Forbidden relationships | 1/11/2009 |
Q: Ive been dating my girlfriend my 11 months now, and it's been one of the greatest things that's ...
A: If she wants to be with you she better be prepared to support herself if her parents cut her off. ...
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| Forbidden relationships | 1/10/2009 |
Q: Ive been dating my girlfriend my 11 months now, and it's been one of the greatest things that's ...
A: When you're dealing with a different culture the hardest thing is dealing with the parents. If your ...
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| My mom give in? | 1/5/2009 |
Q: i have been dating this guy who is an indian and my self is a chinese. We have been together 4 ...
A: The sad thing about parents who are bent on tradition is that they don't understand that you fell in ...
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| interracial relation | 1/2/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is white. i love him so much. i have 2 kids and he has 2 kids from previous marriage. ...
A: This is 2009 I don't understand why people are still stuck on race when it's time to get over it. If ...
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| My family disaproves of my interraccial relationship | 12/30/2008 |
Q: I have recently started my first interracial relationship. My family is not racist but has always ...
A: I had this issue too until I learned that the ignorance hurts the person behind it in the end. Don't ...
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| Dating / Jealousy | 12/29/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with this man whom I've met online for about 5 months. He is wondeful, very ...
A: My take on this is that guys have a hard time letting female friends go when they are involved or ...
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| dating a Nicaraguan woman | 12/24/2008 |
Q: I'm Caucasian & seeing for 2 months a Nicaraguan woman with 2 children (which I've met before) from ...
A: In latin cultures the brothers are always protective of their sisters especially if she's been ...
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| My Girlfriends Parents | 12/23/2008 |
Q: Me and My girlfriend have been together for almost 10 months now, there's only one problem. Her ...
A: One of the things I've learned about IR dating is that not everyone is going to agree with the ...
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| Interracial marriages | 12/18/2008 |
Q: I am an Indian guy, born and brought up in a traditional Indian Family. I am currently in love in ...
A: Interracial relationships only work if the people in it are willing to make it work. If you love ...
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| My parents disappr ove me n boyfriend / Love because he is indian/Hindu? | 11/24/2008 |
Q: I'm chinese ..22 coming 23 next yr march singaporean. My parents are driving me crazy .. some ...
A: One of the things that I've understood about various cultures and their beliefs is that many want ...
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| interracial relationship | 11/22/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for the past years and have been the best moments of my ...
A: Starting off your mother can't tell you who you can and cannot see you're 19 years old. Eventually ...
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| Im black and she is white | 11/14/2008 |
Q: There is this girl at my school that I have been talking to for a while and we are really attracted ...
A: Here's my take why should it matter that you're black and she's white I mean this is 2008 going into ...
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| interracial relationships | 11/7/2008 |
Q: Why do people make a big deal about a white woman being with a black/ African-American man yet if ...
A: This is what I don't understand about society and their reaction to interracial dating whether it's ...
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| boy in school | 10/9/2008 |
Q: i am a 16 year old black girl (a senior in high school) and i go to a school that is very diverse. ...
A: I would go for it since he seems really nice and he seems to catch your fancy, but keep the deal ...
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| not dating same race | 9/8/2008 |
Q: I feel guilty..I am a young black female of 23 years of age and I was wondering, how should I feel ...
A: Adrianna, I am currently in your position right now and it's funny as I don't know what. I don't ...
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| Love and relationships | 8/13/2008 |
Q: Background info: I am 32 years old and my partner Carol is also 32. We have been together for ...
A: I hate to put it bluntly, but rebound relationships don't work and if you met right as she was ...
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| rock in a hard place | 7/17/2008 |
Q: I recently met this amazing guy he's a white guy and happens to be 9 years older then me , but I ...
A: I took some time to think about your question for the past day or so and I came to the conclusion ...
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| black girls | 6/24/2008 |
Q: I love ass and full lips young black girls with that round ass drive me nuts.I have been with white ...
A: Ok just to let you know I am an African-American woman and I have to educate white guys on debunking ...
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| My boyfriend wants me to sleep over | 6/24/2008 |
Q: I’m sending this message to you in need of advice because I’m lost and do not know what to do. So ...
A: I wouldnt lie to your parents because that could affect the relationship between you and them. I ...
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| Indian/black mixed relationship | 6/11/2008 |
Q: I have been involved with a man since October last year I'm 23 he is 43. Age is not really the main ...
A: The most important thing about love is that there is compatibility and seems like despite age ...
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| PLS HELP | 6/9/2008 |
Q: Im an indian girl im 26 yrs old. My parents are from india. My boyfriend/fiancee is from america. He ...
A: How is your boyfriend having a child from a previous marriage an embarassment? The last thing your ...
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