Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 8/8/2006

Question
im a black man in a interracial relationship with a white man. we have been dating for 3 months and he has met my family and friends. i have yet to meet any of his family or friends, nor has he mentioned me to them. i almost feal invisible

Answer
Hello Brian
Well the best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. Let him know how you would like to meet his family and friends and how you feel invisible. You should not havr to feel this way and if this guy really cares about you he could at the very least mention you to some of his friends or family members. So discuss it with him immdeiately cause that is not fair to you. If he refuses to then I really doubt he's worth your time. But if he does care about you he will try to mention you or have you meet the people he knows.
Melissa