About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I can help you with anything you need to know about interracial dating. I myself have been in many relationship with different races. I have also experienced when your parents are not accepting of who you want to date. So if you ever need advice feel free to ask me.
Experience I have dated many guys of various races,cultures and religions.I have also helped many of my friends who had dated different races. Also I've been in different high school and college related organizations.
Question My name is ken, i am in love with my girlfriend Iesha... i'm white she is black. when we first started dating she was 100%in love with me, i was 5%, i wanted to get laid and didn't care... well i succeded in getting laid, although after, doing (IT) and then breaking up. doing it then breaking up, it's like i've used up all my chances... i've grown to love her, i love her so much i have asked the big question... and i really mean i wnat to marry her, and go through whatever it takes... but now it's hard for her to trust me and her trust and faith in me is all i need, she said yes to marrying me, but every small thing thats questionable about our relationship, she flips out like i'm lieing not like before but it's because how i broke her heart so many times and she can't believe me or trust in how i feel now... no more problems and all i wnat is to be with her... what should i tell her to show her that i'm for real and she can trust me...?
thanks ken kenison...
fmxrider75@hotmail.com
Answer Hey Ken
Well It's really hard to gain a girl's trust especially after hurting her. But the best thing you could do is to prove that you really love her and would never ever do anything like that to her again. Action speaks louder than words...You could try doing something for her she has always wanted to do or you could do something extremely sweet like from the heart, this may seem stupid but to give u an idea one time this guy make me a dog out of starbursts(which are my favorite candy and animal). Also you could do other stuff besides materialistic things. Spend the day doing everything she wants, write her a poem, all sorts of things. You also have to understand that to gain back trust takes time. Especially when the trust was broken like that it takes a lot of time. Be her friend and show her you're there for her and that as much as she needs you need her too. Eventually but slowly she'll trust you again just be patient and try to understand from her point of veiw too you know.I mean how would you have liked for a girl to do that to you... so be patient and be there for her and hopefully some day she'll have faith in you. Good luck with everything and I hope everything goes well with the wedding and your marriage!Good luck!
Melissa
