Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 5/19/2006

Question
I would like to ask these questions..

I do have a boyfriend who care for me very much and he does everything for me, he introduce me to his family and friends as i am his girlfriends.BUT:

1. he told me twice or three times he loves me,and we have been together for one year and six months...

2. He will be going for six months vocation, and how don't know what he is thinking about me?

What should i do, go ahead and date other people or stay wait for him.But there is chances for him to meet another women since is far away from me.

3.I am black female and he is white..his dad loves me even though he never meet me, i can tell from his phone conversation, but i doubt his mother,even though she knows about me..all his parents live in the US,and we do live in Canada.

I need you are help.
thanks

Answer
Hey Anna
From what you told me it sounds like he may love you but I really couldn't tell you. You need to ask him. It's really strange how he says he loved you only a couple of times this past year and 6 months. He doesn't have to say it every day but he should have said it much more often than that. Also just ask him how he feels. He's your boyfriend and you both are in love it should not be difficult to ask him how he feels. So ask him. What you need to do is talk to him about this. It sounds like you both may not really love each other and you need to disucss this so you both wont waste each other's time. But ask him why he never says he loves you and ask him how he feels about you. Good luck with all of this and I hope your having a nice day!
Melissa