Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 4/13/2006

Question
hello melissa,
 there is this girl natalie who keeps crank calling me. I asked her out on a date, but she said no. she is a mixed creole girl and I am chinese. I keep getting mixed signals from her. last time, I called her and she asked if I was a friend of her boyfriend. I said yes and asked her why she wanted to know. she didnt give me reason, but I think she likes me because she always flirts with me whenever I am around her. I dont know what to say to her when she calls again because she probably has a boyfriend. what should I do?  

Answer
Hello Keyuan
I have probably answered someting similar to this before but I will provide you with a brief answer. She may not like you too much if she refused to go out with you and told you she had a boyfriend. A girl who had a boyfriend would never tell a guy who she liked and she would have agreed to at least hang out with you and she wouldn't call it a date. If she calls again just ask her if she has a boyfriend. f she says she does then ask her why she keeps calling you. Ask her why she would keep talking to you when she obviously has a boyfriend.
Melissa