About D.J. Expertise I can answer almost everything as long as it is explained clearly and completely! I am also knowledgeable about LGBT issues.If I am not sure about an answer I can recommend outside resources that will help, such as books, websites and movies.
Experience I am currently and have been dating interracially (white, latino, asian, biracial) for over 5 years. I also am researching interracial relationships, as well as biracial young adults. I live in a very diverse area (Philadelphia), and I have many biracial family members- (Japanese, White, Latino, South Asian). I also have lived in England for a while so I have had a chance to observe relations abroad.
Publications I am currently working on my thesis dealing with interracial dating!
Education/Credentials I attend a prestigious college right now, and I am majoring in Sociology with a minor in Economics. I am somewhat fluent in Spanish and I am learning Korean.
i am brown colour skin international student in australia working part
time dishwashing job in a italian reataurant.
i saw girl ,her name is sera and she is 22 years old and i am 24 years
old..because of my shit job i was unable to talk with her while i am
working..cause she is a waiter and i am a busy dish washer.
but some day i ask her to go to dinner with me,and i said i know i am
perfect,and i am a brown colour boy suddenly....
she said i dont care about your job...but she said she has a nice
guy,,,so she cant go out with me.this is the first time i talk with her
,,before that i didnt even ask her name...fainaly i said then we can be a
good friends???she said of course..
after that day when she saw me working she allways say hi to me and
speake with me 3 times a weak...she is very friendly with me than other
waiters..
i think she likes me and she lied to me that she has a boy friend
cause she dont know how to reat when i ask her to go out????
now i am going to ask her,,,like this,,,what are you doing
wednesday,,,i am going to watch movie,but i dont have anyone to go with me???will
you come with me???
but i am afraid to ask this,,cause i dont want to lose her or miss
understand me.....
plese help me...
tell me what to do next????
does she realy like me???
does she realy have a boy friend????
i know her from 3 months now...
thank you..
Answer Hi...
I'm MS. expert : )
It sounds to me like you really are holding onto false hopes right now.
I think in general that when women say they have a boyfriend, they usually do...and I say 'usually' because there have been instances where they say that just to keep from hurting the feelings of a nice guy like you.. but I still think she's telling the truth.
I don't think she likes you in a romantic way, but I do think she likes you in a friendly way ...because that's what you asked for when you found out she had a boyfriend.
I think that it is important for you to know your boundaries ...if you asked to be friends, then be the best friend you possibly can be.
If you push too hard to be in a romantic relationship with her, you might make her work environment and the girl herself very uncomfortable...and you don't want that.
My advice would be to be friends with her and be supportive in any way you can- without smothering or crowding her. Perhaps she may come to think of you in a romantic way over time and realize she really does like you; it's happened in the past to other people!
