Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 4/27/2007

Question
hi my name is casey and i am 15teen years old and im white and i date a black dude. he is 14, we have been together for almost three years in october. he has cheated on me several times but not recently. he has be doin good on that for about 6 months. i really dont know if he'll do it again because they say most afrian american men stay on cheating. and he alwayz tells me how he wont do it again and he wants to marry me and all this stuff..but can you help me?

Answer
Hello
Well if your boyfriend has cheated on you several times then he's probably not worth your time. Also just because your black guy cheats does not mean most do. This has nothing to do with genetics or ethnic background, but mostly on how you were raised. I know many black men who are faithful and any man will remain faithful to a woman if he respects her and truly loves her. I think you should end this. He's not right for you if he's cheating on you at such a young age. Also you both are very young and you'll move on and find other guys. I think you should end this and find someone who is actually worth your time.
Melissa