Expert: Susie Igras - 8/9/2007

Question

how can i attract him again and make him loves me ? we ended our relation because i hurt him and i didint mean to and we didint meet for about two months because im afraid of his reaction i want to know if he can love me again and if not please tell me how can i be his friend and not his girl freind

Answer
Well. If you are interested in getting back together with him you should give him a call and explain to him that your sorry for what happened in the past. You are determined to never hurt him again. If this doesn't work than maybe it is better that you are split and consider finding someone new. You can't make someone love, and you can't make someone be with you. You can try to persuade the person to be with you, but if they don't want to be with you or have moved on then there's not much you can do. If your ex has moved on and is not interested in getting back with you then consider finding someone new to date. However in your next relationship, make a effort to do the right thing and don't do anything that would result in hurting anyone. I hope this helps, if you need anything else let me know.