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Expert: Ahmer - 10/30/2009
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Dear Brother,
I have been married for start 7 months. My husband is my Aunty's son and he is from Pakistan. We got married in Pakistan. I had seem my wedding film CD as many time that I saw my cousin sister was arm around on my husband's shoulders but I don't feel it is right but my cousin sister are young and the age is about 15 or 16 years old. I been told husband that he should not let her arm around on his shoulders but he said it is fine and it nothing seem wrong so I told him that Islam law had say that girls who are sister in law, cousin sister or any of other family girls or outside family girls are not allow hug, kiss and touching to girl's husband. But he didn't believe it and he said my cousin sister are like my little sister. He always think I am wrong so how can I tell him and explaining him that in Islam law had say any of girls are not allow to hug and touching to any of girl's husband? What should I do then?
Also other reason that my cousin sister are rude girl and she was like flirting to my husband when she was arm around my husband's shoulders on my 2nd wedding day. My husband said that she only think that he was like her brother but how can I tell him that my cousin sister are rude girl and like flirting to my husband? But he didn't know any things more about her but only I know about her.
Am I right that my husband should not support to let any of girls touching or hugging to him? Because they are not wives to him?
I will be very grateful if you can advice me.
Thank you.
Sajida.
Answer
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
Assalmalaikum
Dear Sister,
Its equal to zina of the body as she is non-maharam to him.
Quran [33:59] O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies (when abroad) so that they should be known and not molested"
Quran [24:30] Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.
Quran [24:31] And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O you Believers! turn you all together towards Allah, that you may attain Bliss.
Bukhari Volumn 008, Book 077, Hadith Number 609.
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Narated By Ibn 'Abbas : I did not see anything so resembling minor sins as what Abu Huraira said from the Prophet, who said, "Allah has written for the son of Adam his inevitable share of adultery whether he is aware of it or not: The adultery of the eyes is the looking (at something which is sinful to look at), and the adultery of the tongue is to utter (what it is unlawful to utter), and the innerself wishes and longs for (adultery) and the private parts turn that into reality or refrain from submitting to the temptation."
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Ahmer
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