Expert: Ahmer - 10/29/2009

Question
hi i was wondering if you could give me some advise,i am a muslim convert and my husband was born muslim.i am very beautiful and was a model before converting my husband is extreamly sexually attracted to me.he wants me at least 4 times a day,and i  want to please him and do what he wants,I know that i am not allowed to refuse my husband but this is very difficult to do all my prayers ,work and satisfy him,help what do i do

Answer
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Sister,

May Allah reward you for your efforts. Leaving such a field may not have been easy for you. May Allah protect you from any harms and make you a propagator of islam..ameen.

Since you are too beautifull your husband may feel the urge too many times a day. Talk this out with him and work out a solution that fits you both.

If he insists give him what he wants. As time will past by his urges will drop and he will return to normal sexual activities.


[Quran 3:133] And march forth in the way (which leads to) forgiveness from your Lord, and for Paradise as wide as are the heavens and the earth, prepared for Al-Muttaqun (Pious or God fearing)

[Quran 3:134] Those who spend in prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger,and who pardon men; verily, Allah loves Al-Muhsinun (the good­doers).


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Ahmer

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