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hello sir,i want to know this:-how should a Muslim prepare for a proposal to a woman, preparation for marriage and how to prepare for sex and what is a recommended have of doing it. Please answer this as soon as possible .Thank you!

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Just ask her that you would like to marry her and then make sure you have enough money to buy her her maher, make a simple wedding ceremony and prepare a place for you two to live. Sex will come after when you both talk to each other and share loving thoughts and words. After that you will develop feelings that will make you want to be with each other in bed. Take your tme with her when it's time for sex as it can be uncomfortable and painful for a first timer. The rest will follow once you try to be tender and caring.

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Being an Educator of Islamic Studies and Interfaith discussions for the past 25 years and having authored twelve books and numerous articles on Islam - I think I can answer questions on Islam and other religions and issues of the Hanafi jurisprudence as well as general questions on Quran and Sharia. Love, sex and marital problems are some such topics! This is an independent volunteering service and not under any organizational banner that I may be affiliated with. My latest book- Intimacy and the Sacred http://www.iuniverse.com/Bookstore/BookDetail.aspx?BookId=SKU-000463374

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