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Asalam-o-Alaikum brother, i am very distressed these days by my husband's behavior. We have Alhamdulillah been blessed with a baby boy after almost 4 years of marriage. Although its been more than 4 months since the baby was born, my husband has refrained from having sex. Every time there is a new excuese. I dont know what else to do other than asking him.

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Well you need to talk even with a third mediator- he needs to speak up and maybe a counsellor might be good if he doesnt want to talk to you about it.

Sometiems the child coming into the picture affects all or one.

Have a talk with him.

Read this too

http://habeeballi.blogspot.com/search?q=sex

He needs to know he is sinning by not fulfilling his duty to you.

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