Expert: Ahmer - 11/1/2009

Question
salaam
how r u
sir i have few doubts please make it clarify
it will help me and others too
my ques is.

1.. can  waleema be given without having sex
2.. is it compulsary to cover husband and wife while having sex
3.. is it necessary off the lights while having sex
4.. if a husband ejects sperm in wifes vagina and then after taking out the penis from vagina sperm comes out of from wifes vagina is that's the man's sperm or its his wife sperm which comes due to tension. please explain this does husbands sperm comes out if lived in vagina.
5.. does sucking of wifes breast is allowed and what if he drinks milk also
please reply me soon  
i am waiting 4 ur reply
thanks in advance
allah hafiz..
salaam..

Answer
1. Of course. It has no relation to sex. It is a party that the groom gives in order to celebrate and announce his marriage. REmember do not take dowry or dahej from your in-laes. It is strictly forbidden in islam.

2. No there is no need.
3. No there is no need.
4. If it looks like sperm, it is sperm. If it does not the its wifes.
5. Sucking is allowed provided you do not drink the milk

rg
ahmer