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Question Assalam Alaykum,
My husband had had an affair with a non-Muslim women. I told him to leave her continuously on several occasions and he would reply saying yes. One day, I took his phone and told the women to stop seeing him and leave my husband. My husband saw the phone call and came and told me that he is not coming back. I later found out that he had gone to stay with the women. I phoned the women a couple of times telling her to leave him. One day I phoned my husband, he told me that we was with that women and wanted to marry her, without her converting to Islam, so I refused. I called him again and told him to divorce me, he promised he would do so if I left her (the women) alone, so I agreed and he gave my 3 Talaqs.
After 6 months he came to my house to see the children and said to me that he didn't leave me, I was still his wife and that I made him do it (give the Talaqs), I told him if I was his wife had he left that women? He said yes.
He was then living in a house of his own, I told him to move in but he refused and told me to wait as he had things to sort out.
After a year and 10 months, I found out that he was still seeing that women and had had a baby with her. I called him to ask if it was true but he denied it. Once he came over and admitted that the baby was his and he was married to the women, who had not converted to Islam, and had had a Nikah at his friend's house. When I asked his friend, as a witness, if a Nikah had taken place between the two, he confirmed it was not true.
I'd like to know if he is still my husband or not?
Masalam
Answer Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
Assalmalaikum
Dear Najma Mohammed,
Please stay away from him and stop seeing him or talking to him. After he has divorced you he is no longer your husband. If you have any relationship with him, it will be adultery/fornication or Zina.
[Quran 7:51] "Such as took their religion to be mere amusement and play, and were deceived by the life of the world." That day shall We forget them as they forgot the meeting of this day of theirs, and as they were wont to reject Our signs.
Quran 25:68-70 "And those who invoke not any other god along with Allah, nor kill such life as Allah has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse (zina) and whoever does this shall receive the punishment. The torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein in disgrace; except those who repent and believe and do righteous deeds, for those Allah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful."
Quran 17:32 "And come not near to unlawful sexual intercourse. Verily, it is a faahishah (a great sin) and an evil way."
[Quran 24:2] The woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication flog each of them with a hundred stripes: let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day: and let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.
This person is an agent of shaitan. He wants to make you unchaste and make your life miserable.
[Quran 4:119] (Said Shaitan) "I will mislead them, and I will create in them false desires; I will order them to slit the ears of cattle, and to deface the (fair) nature created by Allah." Whoever, forsaking Allah, takes Satan for a friend, has of a surety suffered a loss that is manifest.
[Quran 7:27] O you Children of Adam! let not Satan seduce you, in the same manner as he got your parents out of the Garden, stripping them of their clothes, to expose their shame: for he and his tribe watch you from a position where you cannot see them: We made the Evil Ones friends (only) to those without Faith.
[Quran 17:53] And say to My slaves (i.e. the true believers of Islamic Monotheism) that they should (only) say those words that are the best. (Because) Shaitan (Satan) verily, sows disagreements among them. Surely, Shaitan (Satan) is to man an open enemy.
If you are lonely, take help from your parents, near relatives and stay from this man.
If you have sympathy for him, then pray to Allah to guide him.
