Expert: Ahmer - 6/29/2009

Question
A women was divorced by  her husband and finished Ida  the family has five  children  can the mother   for that reason marry another man then ask divorce so she can came back the father of her children  because he wants to have the lady back but because  he finished all his dalaq  there is no  way they will ever  be together can you please   tell me it is halal thing to do

Answer
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Hodan,

I understand your situation. The 2nd husband has to consummate the marriage just like the 1st husband and then divorce her. After then only she can marry the 1st husband.

[Quran 2:230] So if a husband divorces his wife (irrevocably), He cannot, after that, re- marry her until after she has married another husband and He has divorced her. In that case there is no blame on either of them if they re-unite, provided they feel that they can keep the limits ordained by Allah (God). Such are the limits ordained by Allah (God), which He makes plain to those who understand.

Bukhari Volumn 007, Book 063, Hadith Number 186.
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Narated By 'Aisha : The wife of Rifa'a Al-Qurazi came to Allah's Apostle and said, "O Allah's Apostle! Rifa'a divorced me irrevocably. After him I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent." Allah's Apostle said to her, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa'a? Nay (you cannot return to Rifa'a) until you and 'Abdur-Rahman consummate your marriage."


Bukhari Volumn 007, Book 063, Hadith Number 187.
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Narated By 'Aisha : A man divorced his wife thrice (by expressing his decision to divorce her thrice), then she married another man who also divorced her. The Prophet was asked if she could legally marry the first husband (or not). The Prophet replied, "No, she cannot marry the first husband unless the second husband consummates his marriage with her, just as the first husband had done."

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rg
ahmer