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Question Asalamoalikum brother Ahmer! May peace & blessings of Allah
be on you ameen.
Brother i have heard that if we leave to visit our
relatives in case we are angry then we should not go to
paradise. Is it true? 2nd tell me which relatives or people
are included in it like parents, our siblings, and tell me
about others? Does it include friends also? And 3 tell me
can i leave to go to my mother-in-law's home? One of my
sister-in-law dont treat me well even my mother-in-law dont
treat me well. They insult me. I feel very insulted i dont
like them and even my husband do not say anything to me if i
dont go to his mother's home. Please sir tell me in details
please iam very disturbed. And please answer all my
questions May Allah reward you in the both worlds ameen sum
ameen.
Answer Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
Assalmalaikum
Dear Shaema,
You should maitain the ties of kith and kin. If they are unbearable then dont break the ties from them, but visit them or call them less often.
Bukhari Volumn 006, Book 060, Hadith Number 354.
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Narated By Abu Huraira : The Prophet said, "Allah created His creation, and when He had finished it, the womb, got up and caught hold of Allah whereupon Allah said, "What is the matter?' On that, it said, 'I seek refuge with you from those who sever the ties of Kith and kin.' On that Allah said, 'Will you be satisfied if I bestow My favours on him who keeps your ties, and withhold My favours from him who severs your ties?' On that it said, 'Yes, O my Lord!' Then Allah said, 'That is for you.' " Abu Huraira added: If you wish, you can recite: "Would you then if you were given the authority. do mischief in the land and sever your ties of kinship. (47. 22)
Bukhari Volumn 001, Book 011, Hadith Number 629.
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Narated By Abu Huraira : The Prophet said, "Allah will give shade, to seven, on the Day when there will be no shade but His. (These seven persons are) a just ruler, a youth who has been brought up in the worship of Allah (i.e. worships Allah sincerely from childhood), a man whose heart is attached to the mosques (i.e. to pray the compulsory prayers in the mosque in congregation), two persons who love each other only for Allah's sake and they meet and part in Allah's cause only, a man who refuses the call of a charming woman of noble birth for illicit intercourse with her and says: I am afraid of Allah, a man who gives charitable gifts so secretly that his left hand does not know what his right hand has given (i.e. nobody knows how much he has given in charity), and a person who remembers Allah in seclusion and his eyes are then flooded with tears."
