Expert: Ahmer - 7/4/2009

Question
Asalamoalikum
        Sir, i hate my husband and he hates me too. but i
dont have a family where should i go and live, thats why i
dont ask for divorce but i still pray to Allah that please
give me a caring and loving husband instead of him, will
Allah will listen to my prayer? i dont want to live with him
a single second but i cant do anything. Please tell me Allah
bless you


Answer
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear S,

I am so sorry to learn about your situation. InshAllah help is near and you will get a suitable husband.

[Quran 4:128] If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best; even though men's souls are swayed by greed. But if ye do good and pr actise self-restraint, Allah (God) is well-acquainted with all that ye do.

[Quran 4:129] Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise se lf- restraint, Allah (God) is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.

[Quran 4:130] But if they disagree (and must part), Allah (God) will provide abundance for all from His all-reaching bounty: for Allah (God) is He that careth for all and is Wise.

rg
ahmer