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Assalamu Alaikum ,
I am being engaged with my relative girl , as she is doing her graduate course it takes nearly 10 months for our wedding from the date of engagement , I haven't seen the girl lively , but only through photos

Am I permitted to speak to her in phone or text her ,so that we can get to know about each other and understand each other in the right prospective ?

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You should communicate as its your right to know who you are marrying.
Its your choice.

4:3 If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.

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Being an Educator of Islamic Studies and Interfaith discussions for the past 25 years and having authored seventeen books and numerous articles on Islam - I think I can answer questions on Islam and other religions and issues of the Hanafi jurisprudence as well as general questions on Quran and Sharia. Love, sex and marital problems are some such topics! This is an independent volunteering service and not under any organizational banner that I may be affiliated with. My book- Intimacy and the Sacred talks about Sex and Muslims. http://www.iuniverse.com/Bookstore/BookDetail.aspx?BookId=SKU-000463374

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