I have strange fantasies, i dont know what to do?, what if the wife keeps a sex buddy at home with her husbands knowing, when husband is gone to work she used her sex buddy for everything. even gives her oral sex infront of husband when she is watching tv or doing something.. I mostly dream if my sex buddy is giving me oral sex when im watching tv, and my husband comes from work and gives me a kiss and say good afternoon and does not mind. I also want sex buddy to give me oral sex when im cooking food or eating food on dinner table with hubby and sex buddy in under table. I want to stay naked at home forever.

Buy a copy of my book a sit talks about these fantasies. Of course you are aware that would be considered an illicit affair which is sinful in Islam but to fantasise is not. You are watching porn and getting lonely so you need to find something active in your lifestyle that would distract you from these thoughts while finding the courage to engage with your hubby about these conversations- it's all wholesome and part of life.


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Imam Habeeb


Being an Educator of Islamic Studies and Interfaith discussions for the past 25 years and having authored seventeen books and numerous articles on Islam - I think I can answer questions on Islam and other religions and issues of the Hanafi jurisprudence as well as general questions on Quran and Sharia. Love, sex and marital problems are some such topics! This is an independent volunteering service and not under any organizational banner that I may be affiliated with. My book- Intimacy and the Sacred talks about Sex and Muslims.


I have helped thousands of people who are troubled both in life experiences and lack of proper Islamic knowledge.

Latest book Five White Roses and A Red a book of Poetry dedicated to my mother.



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Youths and issues of generational gap are my areas too. Families under stress.

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