Islam/can i marry her now
My named is ahamed
My family is based on doing DHAWA alhamdulillah. So usually i do dhawa to my friends from my school days. And allah hav given HIDHATHA to only one of my hindu sister how was my classmate in schooling. alhamdulilah!!!
After so many days pased i had a thought of marrying that girl itself and to make sure she lives her life in the path of allah.
So i request that girl WILL U MARRY ME AND CONTINUE LIVING AS A MUSLIM. After taking her own time she replied YES INSHA ALLAH I WILL. So now we both are ready to marry after a certain age comes so that v wil expose our relationship to our parents and insha allah we r damn sure we wil get married with their permision. But we just hate us to be called as lover ASTHURFILLAH we dont want such name til we get married. What are we suppose to do now? the only halal way for us to do for beeing not caled as lovers is getting married now in this age of 21 and 20 in allah's house without telling to parents and after certain age comes we will relieve to our parent that v got married long back in a islamic way only. But here is a big problem. I WANT YOU TO HELP ME WITH UR ANSWER. In islam a boy can marry a girl only with the permision of her WALLI. In such a case how wil i marry her now??. Y we want to get married now is v dont want allah to punish us for beeing called as lovers for many year BEFORE OUR MAARIAGE. she is the only muslim in her family SO DO WE NEED HER KAFIR PARENTS PERMISION FOR OUR MARRIAGE NOW????? Are those kafir parent recogonised as walli's for this reverted muslim girls marriage?
Plz help me with allah's and rasurillah guidence.
Peace to you!
Thanks for your message. As clearly mentioned in my description, I am a follower of Jesus and my expertise is ONLY in answering questions Muslims have regarding Jesus, the Injeel, Zabur, Torah, how to get forgiveness, or the perspective of followers of Jesus on questions Muslims ask.
The reason for me being in the Islam section is that Muslims usually learn about Christianity from Muslims. That is bad academic scholarship and leads to great misunderstandings. If you have a question about an illness you go to a medical doctor not to someone who has a PhD in computing. Similarly, if you have a question about Christianity you must go to a follower of Jesus not to a Muslim. I am here to conveniently offer the removal of misunderstandings.
Of course this truth works the other way as well. A follower of Jesus needs to learn from Muslims about their faith too. May I therefore ask you a few questions, some of them are rethorical:
Why do you wash the way you do? To remove najis, inpuritiy.
What is the most najis thing of all? Touching pork.
Is there anything filthier to God than that? Idolatry.
Where does idolatry take place? In the heart.
So you can clean the body vigorously but how do you clean the heart? By repentance and asking forgiveness.
You can't just repent of touching the pork, you must also wash.
How is repentance able to cleanse the heart of idolatry, but not the hands of pork, seeing that idolatry is filthier than pork?? Please answer that one for me.
I hope you do not mind if I ask you some more questions:
Do you pray 5 times a day?
What else do you do so you will possibly go to heaven?
How many Sharia laws are there and how many of them do you obey well?
If you can not obey all of them, why would Allah requiere of you more than you can do?
Do you know whether you will be going to heaven?
Would you like to know the answer to the question of how we can get to heaven from the perspective of the Torah and the Injeel?
Alternatively, if you wish to learn more about the main message of the Holy Bible, I do offer an e-mail correspondence course on it. The first lesson explores what the Quran says about the Torah and Injeel and whether they are still reliable. Would you like to do this study?
Please do not hesitate to contact me if I can be of further help in any of the above.