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Assalamualaikum warahmatuAllah wabarakatuhu !!

I am aware of a sister who is about to get married to a brother whom I have seen and have been told loves to hang around women. I was told that he has many female friends by at least two sisters. I have even witnessed myself an instant where he was placing his hand around the shoulders of a barely dressed nonmuslim woman and as soon as he saw me, his hand quickly went down.  Knowing of this, is it my right to anonymously inform the soon to be wed sister about this behavior  of her fiancée ?
Despite this shortcoming, I have seen him do righteous acts, such as reading the quran in his free time. He does have many righteous friends. He does lower his gaze when he walks past muslim sisters. All in all, he has a seemingly good islamic demeanor.

As additional information: the sister is well liked among the members of the MSA, her father is an imam and although I don't really know her, she seems like a an exceptionally good muslimah.  Also, Both these soon to be couples met each other at the same university and are well known there and are from same background.

My questions is, should I inform her of this as I want the best for her and would wish that someone would do the same for me if I were in her shoes. Also, I feel as though as muslims, we should watch out for each other .


JazakaAllahkhairan in advance!!!!!

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  ASSALAAMU ALAIKUM WB

Well - you do have a good point and concern for your sister - but it is a very DELICATE MATTER, therefore based on your question, you could tell someone who is very very very close to the sister  who could inform her and  keep her aware of the boy's behavior, so she would be able to know how to handle the situation Inshaa Allaah Aameen.

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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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