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I am a muslim. I don't want to reveal my name. I am 18 yr old and a college student.
Before I tell about my problem I want you to know about my past. I have always been a person shy to girls. Friends use to make fun of me during my schooling days that I don't talk to girls I just use to get nervous. I never believed in love based on bf gf for ne it was always crap I valued love it was spirtual
. But now I have fell in love .I have become so much in love that it has been affecting by day to day life. But for me its not possible for me to see a future with her because of her bding a different religion and I am so scared that I stay away from because I don't want to be friends with her and reveal about my feelings for her and she being in my class I always see her. Please give a solution I never loved a girl before always being away from this I have become a part of it. Please understand and reply what should I do. For two weeks I have been ignoring her but this cant stay for long.
Please guide me.


Actually, I only returned from out of  town two days ago and got some programs / meetings pending to attend too Inshaa Allaah - So, I apologize for not being able to answer your question at this time - please forgive me for that Inshaa Allaah-  as soon as I have some availability , I will try to answer your question Inshaa Allaah -however, please do not hesitate to send me a reminder  Inshaa Allaah

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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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