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Asalamalikum. I am married for 1.5years and since the day of my marriage im crying.my mother in law is very talkative and she never accepts her mistakes.u wont beleive but she talks 20 hrs out of 24. Im a very introvert.i have big family to look after i do all household work myself withyout any domestic help and i always enjoy my work. But i cant talk she expece ts me to sit and entertain her
everytime. She wont let me sleep and she talks so badly when i askher to keep quiet.when some guests come she wont let them speak and if unfortunately that guest stays back she wont let them sleep as well us coz she speaks so loudly that i cant sleep i need peace to sleep
. My husband z really nice but z unemployed and have some problem in his knee.he z looking for job i asked him to take me away from all this but he z not willing. I dont know what to do it is effecting my relation with my husband. I am trying to conceive since 3 months but im sooooo stressed out that it z not working. Plz help me. I try to be regular with my namaz and re ite many duas to get pregnant. And you may w ont find it a serious problem but it is. I cant live like this.eagerly waiting for reply

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ASSALAAMU ALAIKUM W.B

I think you should get in contact with the Imaam/ who performed your nikaah and asked him to talk to your mother in law Inshaa Allaah

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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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