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QUESTION: As salaam walikum
May ALLAH reward and help you and all your team to help us
my question is :-
i did second marriage to a divorce lady as per lslamic law with the help of my friends and imam
before few years. we both are working in gulf country and ours both family
they dont know that we did second marriage. they know that we are a good friend
now my second wife say we should say to our families which may create a lots of problems
they may say us to leave each other or my second wife can ask khola or my frist wife and my family
force me to take divorce?
Please advice me what to do, we dont want to seperate from each other
can we keep quite and tell lie that we are a good friend as our both families knows from before
please tell me as per kalam of allah and sunnat of rasulallah SAWS
and please for allah sake make dua for us or teach us some dua
thanks and jazak allah khair

ANSWER: Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Brother,

May Allah make it easy for you. Indeed as per the sunnat everyone has the right to know that you have married a lady. She is entitled for her rights as a wife and the society should know about your marriage.

You can explain them that in order to avoid satanic activities you both got married. Dont worry nobody will force divorce from you as Allah is their to help you.

Bukhari Volumn 007, Book 062, Hadith Number 082.
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Narated By Abu Huraira : The Prophet said, "It is not lawful for a woman (at the time of wedding) to ask for the divorce of her sister (i.e. the other wife of her would-be husband) in order to have everything for herself, for she will take only what has been written for her."


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QUESTION: "Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu Please reffer the below link which is my second marrige
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Islam-947/2008/11/permission-second-marriage.htm
Thanks to ALLAH that we married before 5 years we dont have internal or personal problem in between both of us
but as she is my second wife and she got a girl now age of may be 20 because of her (2nd wife) daughter ,my 2nd wife mother and my 2nd wife brother and her sister and for my frist wife.
now my 2nd wife says i dont want to make any problem between them so better we seperate
i told my second wife as per islam you cant leave me without any strong or logic reason so please give some advice to me and my 2nd wife as per quran and hadith and please tell me can she leave me without any logic and legal reasone by useing the word "yes she can live without any legal reason OR no she can't leave you without leagal reason and another side still she say i want to live with u thanks and jazak allah khair

Answer
Bukhari Volumn 007, Book 062, Hadith Number 082.
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Narated By Abu Huraira : The Prophet said, "It is not lawful for a woman (at the time of wedding) to ask for the divorce of her sister (i.e. the other wife of her would-be husband) in order to have everything for herself, for she will take only what has been written for her."

Dont divorce her unless the elders are involved and they decide for the divorce.

[Quran 4:35] If you fear a breach between them twain (the man and his wife), appoint (two) arbitrators, one from his family and the other from her's; if they both wish for peace, Allah will cause their reconciliation. Indeed Allah is Ever All­Knower, Well­Acquainted with all things.

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