I met a potential person that I thought was suitable for me to marry and told my family about him and he told his family so that our family is aware of the situation. We've ran into some problems where we are constantly arguing so I performed an istikhara and to me it came back positive. I've done this twice and both times it seems positive. The first dream I had was that I have a daughter with this man and his deceased grandmother wearing white says I should name her noor. The second dream I had was I dreamt I was with his mother in the garden I was wearing green and she told me to pick a seed which beared fruit and plant it from a hand full of seeds she was holding. The seed I chose bore an apple tree and then I dreamt that the little girl I dreamt about from the first dream takes an apple of the tree and is smiling. I also dreamt she was holding white candles. When I woke from these dreams I felt realived assuming they seem positive. However since we've been arguing he has been having bad dreams about me for like a week. What does this mean if my istikhara is showing something different? Does this mean the istikhara is negative and he is not suitable for marriage? Can you interpret the dreams please and get back to me I am extremely worried and just need a bit of advice.
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
I am sorry i have less knowledge in dream interpretation.
Actually the perception people have about istikhara is wrong. People think that Allah will give them a sign through dream etc and that is the way to know about its results. Its not exactly true.
When one does istikhara, he actually supplicates to Allah about his intentions in regards to a particular work. If that particular deed (marriage/job) etc is good for him and will benefit him, then he will be able to perform that deed, if not then Allah will block him.
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