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assalam alaikum
I am an engineer working in a company and I am 25 years old. I have just started my carrier 2 years back, my parents are planning for my marriage , but I don't want to marry for another like 4 years ,

My question is. the girl whom they are proposing to marry me is my father's sister daughter and she is only 13 years old now ,which means age difference between us wiil be 13years  and they are telling that to marry her when she will be 15 and also their family is poor . I don't know what to say I am totally confused pls help me out here . (pls dua for me )

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ASSALAAMU ALAIKUM WB

I think you should ask an Islamic Scholar or family member whom your family respect - to speak to your parents and convince them not to force you to marry someone you  are not happy with Inshaa Allaah Aameen

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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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