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Salamu Alaikum brother. My problem is regarding marriage. I have a serious psychological condition or inadequacy and a mental ilness. I think that if i marry i cannot provide for them, be able to let graduate from a fine university if i were the bread winner. Also, Allah forbid, i do not want my progeny if ever to be like me. This are the reasons why i do not want or feel like not marrying.. Would i then be committing a grave sin thereby if i do not marry since i have a mental illness? Would i then be out of the fold of islam and not be among the followers of the Prophet? would it rule me out any chances of entering Jannah? And i belief Allah is Most Loving and Merciful..

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Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Brother,

There is nothing wrong if you do not marry due to a medical reason. However you may consult with your family members who are close to you and who know you much better. If they suggest you can marry then you should proceed for it.

Allah recommends us to carry out our decisions by mutual consultation in order to bring out the best.

[Qurn 42:38] Those who hearken to their Lord, and establish regular Prayer; who (conduct) their affairs by mutual Consultation; who spend out of what We bestow on them for Sustenance;


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