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aasalamu aalaikum

I am insearch of peace, i understand i can find it only through namaz. i want to share the situation i am in. i was into a relationship for 5years and now she has left me alone which i never expected it to happen. i always considered her the most important person in my life.
now that we broke up i am not able to move on. i tried following the salah. i found peace but i am unable to be steadfast. my mind deviates. .please help me. .i am really in a very bad situation that my minds pushes me to commit suicide which is a major sin.

because of all this i am unable to focus on anything, i dont wish to talk to my frnz, i dont wish to mingle with my frnz, i dont wish to hangout, i have lost myself completely. .


i feel pain every second. tears roll down every now and then. .my mind and heart is more of like a girls nature. i want to change this. i dont want to be so soft. i want to be strong. please help me. .how do i get rid of this pain?

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ASSALAAMU ALAIKUM WB

I recommend that you get up and pray Tahajjud everyday and ask Allaah for Hidaya and to forget her etc, plus you must read a lot of DAROOD SHAREEF Inshaa Allaah. In a few days or immediately  Allaah will resolve your problem Inshaa Allaah Aameen.

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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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