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I'm an 18 year old girl. the problem with me is that i've developed so much interst in reading the stuff about sex and its is affecting me so much and diverting  my attention from my studies. and now i feel like me myself is so desperate to have sex. four years back i came to know about all the process of sex and from that day not a single day has passed in which i have not thought about sex. i just don't know what to do to help myself.

Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)


Dear Sister,

Indeed its tempting once you learn about sex. However you can force your parents to get you married early since the feelings will get more and more.

However in order to exercise control over it please fast.

Bukhari Volumn 007, Book 062, Hadith Number 004.
Narated By 'Abdullah : We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."


Its my duty to help those in need. You are free to ask as many questions as you like.

If you are not convinced or feel the answer did not address all your questions, pls write back immediately without any hesitation. Please do forgive me if there is an unexpected delay in replying.


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( Note: I am not a mufti, if you are in doubt or want 100% accuracy please verify the above hadith with an authentic personality. However I have not altered any hadith and presented it as and how it was found. May Allah forgive our mistakes from time to time...ameen.)


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