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I am a moslim woman,elhamdulilah
Even if I have not grown up in islamic condition. I found my mostly way alone
I HAVE A QUESTION
I had a boyfriend,we broke up. In that time when we were apart,I changed myself,I eanted to forget him. I tried to be attractive, I spoke to one or two men abou my intimn life and I sad them about my sexual experience. Because they asked my,I was ashamed,but I sad them. Then I felt myself bad
I have also let some boy kiss my on a face but I have never wanted to be with someone else except my first boyfriend
Now we are again together and I sad him about my sins.I dont know if he will forgive me.But I hope Allah will
I HAVE NEVER HAD A MEETING WITH ANOTHER MAN,I HAVE NEVER KISSED SOMEONE EXCEPT HIM AND I LOVE ALWAYS ONLY HIM
Please do you think that I can feel myself pure near this man? What should I do? Should I tell him again about all my sins? Or can show him my positive side and share love with him? Because I feel really bad about my past. But I Know I am faithfull
Ps: I made tawbah and I still hope allah will forgive me

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ASSALAAMU ALAIKUM WB

Alhamdulillaah if mad Taubah, then Allaah is Most Merciful and Most Forgiving - however, you dont have to tell him, but if  you have to do so, then you need to use your discretion Inshaa Allaah.

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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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