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Assalamu alaikum warehmatullahi wabarkatahu...
I am in a relation with a Muslim girl from last 1 year.Alhumdullillah we both offer our Salat daily.I have told my parents about our relationship n they are ready to accept her .but still now she hasn't told her parents about the same as she fears that they won't accept me.
Before six months I had approached her family for marriage in traditional way n dey rejected d proposal as we had a small house den.N dey came across some people who created some misunderstandings in Der mind regarding my family.
Now we have constructed a house by Allah's grace which is more than sufficient bt she is saying dat her father doesn't like that area.
Her father is looking for a groom for her n infact he has selected one .But she isn't ready for it.
Still she says dat she can't oppose her parents.
We both definitely want to marry each other , if we dont we won't be happy bt still we don't want to hurt her parents .So what should we do .N how should I approach her parents now . N how should I clear those misunderstandings.
Plz , plz help me out of this dilemma.
Allah hafeez.

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Answer: Assalaamu Alaikum WB
I think that you should get someone Islamically educated who knows her parents well, to speak to them  on your behalf Inshaa Allaah.
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BRIEF BIO Shaikh Shafayat was born, in Trinidad, West Indies, where he attended College etc.. Due to his multi-faith and cultural upbringing, he was awarded a scholarship to become a Christian Minister. In 1975 he went to India to study Islam and became the first student from the Caribbean and North America to have enrolled in Darul Uloom Deoband, which is the largest and oldest Islamic Institute in India. In addition to graduating as a Qaari and Islamic Scholar, he also did a course in Journalism and established the Al Hikmat Muslim Magazine, plus he produced many television and radio programs in Trinidad and Florida USA. In 1983 he founded the National Muslim Sports League of Trinidad and Tobago, which established the Islamic Home for Children. He is the Founder/Principal of Darul Uloom Institute in Pembroke Pines Florida and the first Muslim to become President of the Interfaith Council of South Florida in the year 2002. He organized and conducted many Christian / Muslim / Jewish Dialogues in Churches, Synagogues and Islamic Centers in the U.S.A.. Shaikh Shafayat was the first Muslim to represent Islam at a Florida State Faith Summit, held at the Capitol Building with Gov. Jeb Bush in the year 2000. He is a recipient of the Silver Medallion Award from NCCJ (a national interfaith organization) and a recipient of the Peacemaker Award from St. Thomas University in Miami. For many years he lectured on Islam and terrorism to Pembroke Pines Police of South Florida and other Law Enforcement Officers. He lectures throughout the U.S.A. and worldwide on Islam, Interfaith Issues and Cultural Diversity.

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