Italian Language/Tu or Lei?


Hi Paolin:

I asked someone to give my regards to a woman I knew.

He said " si, gliela saluto".

Does the "la" refer to the woman or to me (using the form
Lei instead of tu?

thanks & regards


Hello Joe,

in this case, in the expression "gliela saluto", "la" refers to the woman. The form used is the polite "lei" form, instead of "tu". Here's the detailed analysis:
gli-(e)-la saluto  means literally [I]will greet her for you;
"her" is expressed with "la" and is the same either in the "lei" or in the "tu" form, because it's not referred to the direct interlocutor, but to a third person;
"for you" is expressed with "gli"; it is referred to the direct interlocutor, in the polite "lei" form.
In the informal "tu" speech, the same expression would be meant with "te-":
"te la saluto".
I hope this helps, don't worry to ask again if I let something unclear. Thank you for your question, good bye,


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